Converts / Reverts

It's surprising how often this happens. As soon as I mention that I'm single, I start getting messages from female profiles. Then, sooner or later, I discover that some of them are actually men hiding behind fake accounts, and the conversation eventually turns into a request for money.

So please, be careful. Not every profile is genuine.

If I was a woman and I genuinely loved and respected my husband, I would not sit back and watch him carry every single bill, every financial responsibility, and all the pressure alone while I was capable of helping. That is not how I would show love to my partner. A husband is not a walking bank account. He is a human being who also has stress, responsibilities, and limits. Expecting a man to provide everything while your own money remains untouched is not a partnership. It is expecting someone else to carry your burden. If the only thing that makes a man valuable as a husband is how much money he can provide, then that is not love. That is valuing him for what he can give you financially.

Detachment is real love 💕 but the sweet thing is nobody gets hurt

Assalamualaikum beautiful ladies and gentlemen my name is Mohamed Mansaray I'm from Sierra Leone West Africa 🌍🌍 and I'm a new member here.I converted to Islam six months ago. Mashaa Allah nice to meet you all

I may have become a Muslim recently, but I was not born yesterday. I know a lustful man when I see one 🤣Yall better keep it moving cause I’m not that easy.

🕌 The Story of Prophet Sulayman (AS) 💚✨
A King Who Ruled With Wisdom and Gratitude

Prophet Sulayman (AS) was one of the greatest Prophets of Allah. He was the son of Prophet Dawud (AS) and was blessed with wisdom, knowledge, and a kingdom unlike any other.

Allah gave Prophet Sulayman (AS) authority over mankind, the jinn, the birds, and even the wind. Despite these extraordinary blessings, he remained humble, grateful, and obedient to Allah.

Allah says:

«"And We certainly gave knowledge to Dawud and Sulayman, and they said, 'Praise be to Allah, who has favored us over many of His believing servants.'"»

📖 Al-Qur'an 27:15

One day, while marching with his army, Prophet Sulayman (AS) heard an ant warning the other ants to enter their homes so they would not be crushed.

Allah says:

«"Until, when they came upon the valley of the ants, an ant said, 'O ants! Enter your homes lest Sulayman and his soldiers crush you while they do not perceive.' So he smiled, amused at her words, and said, 'My Lord, enable me to be grateful for Your favor which You have bestowed upon me and upon my parents, and to do righteousness that You approve of.'"»

📖 Al-Qur'an 27:18–19

Prophet Sulayman (AS) also communicated with birds. When he noticed that the hoopoe bird was absent, it later returned with news about the Kingdom of Sheba and its queen, who worshipped the sun instead of Allah.

Prophet Sulayman (AS) invited her to worship Allah alone. By Allah's permission, she recognized the truth and accepted faith.

📖 Al-Qur'an 27:20–44

Throughout his life, Prophet Sulayman (AS) never forgot that every blessing came from Allah.

He said:

«"This is by the grace of my Lord, to test me whether I will be grateful or ungrateful."»

📖 Al-Qur'an 27:40

🌿 Lessons From the Story of Prophet Sulayman (AS)

💛 Be grateful to Allah for every blessing.

💛 True leadership is based on justice, wisdom, and humility.

💛 Use your knowledge and abilities to obey Allah.

💛 Never let wealth or power make you arrogant.

💛 Always remember that every blessing is a test from Allah.

🤲 A Reminder

The life of Prophet Sulayman (AS) teaches us that success is not measured by wealth or power, but by gratitude, justice, and obedience to Allah.

May Allah make us grateful for His countless blessings, bless us with wisdom, and keep us humble and steadfast upon the truth. Amin.

📚 References:
📖 Al-Qur'an 27:15–19
📖 Al-Qur'an 27:20–44

Well, I used to find many foreigners on this app, but I can't find any white men anymore.

It's getting tiring.

Looking for a spouse, not just a conversation. May Allah guide us to someone who brings us closer to Him. Ameen. 🤍

As a new muslim revert, who doesn't know much about muslim women, what do girls seek in their partner in terms of personality and appearance, I'm still learning?

Marriage isn't about finding a perfect person. It's about finding someone who chooses you every single day, even on the difficult ones. ❤️

A genuine question:

What do you think is the most important quality for a successful marriage?

• -Respect?
• -Trust?
• -Loyalty?
• -Communication?
• -Deen?
• -Or something else?

I'd genuinely love to hear different opinions. 👇