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I've noticed something deeply troubling in our community — teenagers, often between 16 and 22, being pushed into marriage, sometimes having children soon after, and then ending up divorced before they've even had the chance to figure out who they are.
We need to ask ourselves: what kind of society normalizes this?
For a long time, I blamed it solely on the orthodox mindset of parents — the rush to "settle" kids before they're ready, the fear of "log kya kahenge," the belief that marriage will somehow fix immaturity or instability. And honestly, that mindset does play a huge part. Marrying off a 17-year-old because a "good rishta" came along, without asking if she's emotionally or financially ready, is a failure of responsibility disguised as tradition.
But the deeper I think about it, the more I realize it's not just about orthodoxy. It's about a system that doesn't prepare young people for what marriage and parenthood actually demand — emotional maturity, financial stability, communication skills, the ability to navigate conflict. None of that is taught. Instead, we throw two people who are barely adults into a lifelong commitment and expect them to "figure it out."
And when it doesn't work — when two kids who never had a real childhood suddenly find themselves parents themselves, trying to survive a marriage they didn't fully choose — we call it their failure. Rarely do we call it ours.
If we want fewer broken homes, fewer children growing up between two households, fewer young people carrying the weight of decisions made for them — we need to start having honest conversations. About readiness. About consent. About what marriage actually requires beyond a nikah and a wedding card.
Tradition isn't the enemy. But blindly following it without question — at the cost of young lives — is.
#SocietalChange #EarlyMarriage #MentalHealthMatters #BreakingTheCycle
This is your sign to read surah kahf with meaning today to understand how to escape dajjalic system we’re currently living under.
Salam Jumma Mubarak(Grand Mosque Paris)
Assalamun^ alaikum
Jummah mubarak to.
My Muslim ☪️ ummah
HADITH OF THE DAY
26 Dhul Hijjah 1447
12 June 2026
Friday يوم الجمعة
Forgiveness Without Measure
Anas bin Malik رضي الله عنه narrates:
I heard the Prophet ﷺ saying in a Hadith Qudsi that Allah the Almighty says:
O son of Adam! So long as you call upon me, and have hope in me, I shall forgive you for what you have done; and I shall not care.
O son of Adam! If your sins were to reach the heights of the skies, and then you ask forgiveness from me, I would forgive you and shall not care (that your sins were so many).
[Tirmidhi]
Today being the day of Friday let us recite Surah Kahf and excessive Salaat & Salaam (Durood) upon Nabi صلى الله عليه وسلم.
صلى الله عليه وسلم
صلى الله عليه وسلم
صلى الله عليه وسلم
What if the greatest crisis ahead is not economic… but spiritual?
Many people worry about inflation, wars, financial collapse, digital currencies, or the next global crisis.
Maybe those things will happen.
Maybe they won’t.
But there is one danger the Prophet ﷺ already warned us about over 1,400 years ago.
He called it “Wahn.”
The companions asked,
“What is Wahn, O Messenger of Allah?”
He replied:
“Love of the worldly life and hatred of death.”
Think about that.
Perhaps the greatest collapse is not when banks fail.
It is when hearts become so attached to dunya that losing wealth feels like losing life itself.
If our happiness depends on our savings, our investments, our careers or our possessions, then we have built our security on things that can disappear overnight.
A believer should prepare for hardship before hardship arrives.
Not by living in fear.
But by strengthening tawakkul, increasing worship, reducing dependence on dunya and remembering that our true home is not here.
If tomorrow the markets crash, electricity fails or food becomes scarce, our greatest asset will not be money.
It will be iman.
The believer who knows Allah has already found a security that no government, no currency and no crisis can ever take away.
Don’t prepare only your portfolio.
Prepare your heart to meet Allah.
Now this might gonna trigger so many here but truth doesn't care.
The contradiction between outwardly praying for the people of Palestine and, at the same time, bullying or harming Muslims in your own country is a profound moral and ethical failure. This hypocrisy weakens the very causes of justice, human dignity, and solidarity you claim to stand for.
Advocating for Palestine is fundamentally about defending the oppressed and opposing systemic injustice. You cannot effectively champion human rights on the global stage while violating those exact principles at home. True solidarity requires aligning your daily actions with the values of compassion and fairness.
Accountability and Self-Reflection Bullying, marginalizing, or showing prejudice—whether through verbal harassment, discrimination, or physical harm—is universally condemned in Islamic teachings, which emphasize mutual respect and protecting the vulnerable. Hurting fellow human beings fundamentally contradicts the spiritual practice of prayer and empathy.
How many of really practically helped our Palestinian brothers and sisters?
If Hazrat Mehdi appears in our lives, how many of us are ready?
We can't even survive without a.c.
Are we really prepared?
We post for Palestine, Syria etc just coz the world is posting, yet we can't even tolerate our muslims whom we're living with.
May Allah guide us all. Aameen.