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Ansaar Ahmed on Instagram: "“Why should I lower my gaze if women aren’t covering up?” #muslim #islam #islamicreminder #marriage #relationships"
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From Abdullah ibn Umar (R.A), the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: "When the food of one of you is served, and the prayer is called, then start with eating. And let him not rush to leave the food until he finishes it."
📚 Bukhari and Muslim
Lesson: Islam balances worship and worldly needs. If food is in front of you and prayer starts, eat first so you don’t pray while distracted/hungry. Then pray with khushu’. But don’t rush eating either - eat calmly until you’re satisfied.
People who are crazy over celebrities whether actors, actresses, singers, sports personalities and these days k-pop idol are a huge red turn off for I am not 100% sure what about it is so repulsive but I have always found people in celebrity worship culture to be weird. Literally feels like Idol worshiping to me
It took me 10 years to understand the wisdom behind having good manners:
People will accept your advise
You will have support always
You get good deeds even after death
People will gravitate to the source of whats making you have good manners aka islam
Even your enemies will respect you
Playing with someone's feelings, love, and trust can have serious consequences. Trust is one of the hardest things to earn and one of the easiest things to lose.
When you give someone false hope, manipulate their emotions, or take their love for granted, you can leave deep emotional scars that may affect their ability to trust others in the future.
For the person who does it, the consequences can include losing respect, damaging their reputation, breaking meaningful relationships, and eventually facing the same kind of hurt themselves. What goes around often comes around.
If you cannot return someone's feelings or are not serious about them, the kindest thing to do is to be honest rather than lead them on.
"A broken heart can heal, but broken trust is much harder to rebuild."
Effects for the future (Islamic perspective):
Loss of barakah (blessing) in life and relationships
Damage to reputation and trust, making it hard for people to believe you again
Difficulty in building healthy, stable relationships in the future
Possible emotional regret and guilt later in life
*Accountability in the Hereafter, as Allah will question every broken trust and harm done to others
In short, harming someone’s feelings may bring temporary benefit, but in the long term it often leads to loss of trust, emotional consequences, and spiritual accountability.
O you who believe, avoid much suspicion, indeed, some suspicion is sin
(Surah Al-Hujurat 49:12)
If you don’t understand your brother’s intention, ask for clarification, and don’t let Shaytan interpret it for you.
Misunderstandings often arise not from what is said, but from what is assumed. Before allowing doubts to grow, seek clarity.
A simple question can prevent broken ties, and an open heart can silence Shaytan’s whispers. Strengthen your relationships through sincere communication, not assumptions.
The Prophet ﷺ said:
إِيَّاكُمْ وَالظَّنَّ؛ فَإِنَّ الظَّنَّ أَكْذَبُ الْحَدِيثِ
"Beware of suspicion, for suspicion is the most false of speech..." (Bukhari: 6724).
The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: "All of my Ummah will be forgiven except those who commit mujaharah. And from mujaharah is that a person commits a sin at night, then in the morning Allah covers it for him, but he says: O so-and-so, last night I did such-and-such. He spent the night with Allah covering him, but in the morning he exposes what Allah had concealed for him."
📚 Bukhari and Muslim