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These days, expectations seem to grow faster than feelings. Sometimes it feels like finding genuine understanding is harder than finding love

This girl is pretty even without makeup...but this post is to say anyone can look gorgeous...
Sometimes I do understand the guys when they say no makeup cause a person changes so much that you cannot say its the same person.
Short real story..before I divorced
So you know how you are invited to family weddings but at times you don't really know who they are? So I did go to one such wedding and the bride was gorgeous 😍. I wasn't sure actually which side I was related from as it was from my inlaws side. 2 weeks later I meet this girl and she is supposed to be my ex's cousin.. I kind of pretend I know who she is and tell I haven't seen her for ages! She gives me a look and tells me that I came to her wedding 2 weeks back 😬. I was like 'Err yeah... that kind of slipped my mind as it's not like a meet up' 🙈
I sware it was like 2 different people!. I mean makeup is fine to highlight your existing looks... but let's not go overboard that you are not recognisable 😁

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DWbXQiIk2LP/?igsh=dWh2NHduYjl4bDF2

Normalize saying “I don’t know what I’m doing here either.” 😂🤝

Some of y’all have bios so mysterious… I’m not sure if I’m reading a profile or solving a murder case. 🤐🗡️

Something neww

is mirroring actually... okay??
so i’ve been lowkey spiraling about this lol.

i’m just a fast-reply person. like, notification pops up and my brain goes must clear red dot NOW. i physically can't let chats pile up. it’s not even about them, it’s a me problem 💀

but lately i noticed... when i reply fast and they take hours/days, i feel kinda dumb? like i’m not being valued? so i started mirroring their energy. they take 3 hours? bet, i’ll wait 3 hours too.

ngl it feels SO wrong to me. sitting on a message when i already know what to say is literal torture. but when i don’t mirror, i feel like i’m the only one trying.

so here’s my q: is mirroring healthy boundary-setting or am i just being petty??

bc part of me thinks “match their effort = self-respect”. but another part is like “girl u’re just playing games now and that’s not u”.

idk. if u’re naturally fast at replying, does forcing urself to slow down just to ‘mirror’ make sense? or are we just abandoning our own communication style to feel ‘even’?

what do y’all think? team “mirror them” or team “be urself even if u look desperate” 😭

✍🏻 ps. i know this take is gonna have ppl in the comments fighting me lmao. but i'm genuinely ovt about this rn and need y'all's honest thoughts. pls be nice, i'm sensitive 💀

Anyone up to talk about islam,current events or anything. Hmu. Im more bores than a skunk in a landfill

This app needs a instachat feature

My ex girlfriend once told me something that completely changed the way I see things.
She said, 'When a woman is telling you about her problems, don't rush to fix them. Don't immediately offer solutions or try to solve everything. Just listen. If you want to help, offer your shoulder. And if her emotions become overwhelming, just give her a quiet hug.'
The funny part? Even if the problem isn't solved, that approach somehow works. 😅
So... what kind of magic is that? 😂
I still respect my ex for teaching me that lesson. It was a valuable experience.

Assalamoilaikum. I'm so perplexed, it feels like a world of "window shopping" that's only getting worse. Is it me? Is it men? Is it women? How is a surgeon from Harvard, working in Ottawa, so loving, but vaping is the dealbreaker? C'mon let's talk about it. @all