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Why are 50% of my ads on muzz about naked women?
Anyone else getting that?
Not every love story needs the Empire State Building. Just the right person.
So when you see hair on a woman's chin or upper lip.
Or on their hands and legs.
What's your reaction guys !?
Men react?
This post to understand and gauge reaction of opposite gender.
(Advice for woman link pasted below)
Advice for Men
Start your day with whatever your basic rituals are.
Follow what has been taught by the elders and the wise. Your routine depends on your life, your situation, your clock, your responsibilities, and your own discipline.
But once you step out, don’t step out empty.
Always have these in your EDC (Everyday Carry):
A valid ID card.
One good debit or credit card not your whole wallet.
A little bit of cash.
A clean handkerchief two if possible. One for you, one to offer someone else.
Your keys on a strong carabiner keychain.
A small legal 4 inch blade pocket knife or multitool (Check your local laws)
A knuckle buster, if legal in your area (If not be carefu). Be aware of your local laws and authorities. This is not to start fights, show off, or act tough. It is only for extreme situations where you may need to protect yourself, your family, or someone weak and helpless.
A pen.
A small notebook or folded paper.
A compact flashlight.
A car window breaker even if you don't own a car.
A power bank and/or charging cable.
Basic medicines you may need.
A couple of band-aids.
Your phone, fully charged.
And most importantly, a calm mind.
A man should be prepared, not paranoid.
Carry things that help you solve problems, protect your dignity, assist others, and move through the world with control.
Strength is not in looking dangerous.
Strength is in being calm, aware, useful, and ready when it matters.
Your EDC should say one thing about you: I am ready.
Good morning ✨️
I actually slept in today, alhamdulillah.
Me and my momma were having a discussion yesterday on the different challenges we come across in life (I pestered her about wanting to know what struggles she went through and how she overcome them.) She brought up that one of the greatest challenges, in her generation, she continually faced throughout her life was how she handled people after her struggles and those wanting to be involved. Keeping civil and patient around some people wasn't easy for her. There was a lot of times she had to humble herself in her youth. She described it as ignoring and letting things go for the sake of Allah swt and her peace.
When she mentioned it as a challenge, it sorta seemed like a kind of test to me. I also don't think it's a generational thing- I thought of times in real, but even here where we only show up or vocalise for the drama, tag others for involvement, or react to everything people do or say. How we react to others in situations and what we enjoin in determines our personality, the impression of us and somewhat shapes pur identity. Not that I'm a saint, I've had my moments here and there too, especially when I was fairly new. I just learned to ignore, set my boundaries and leave when I need to over time. It makes sense when you consider that our manners and the way we react are part of our deen.
Upon reflecting on what my momma said, one's involvement in situations, even if it's just to be present or watch, is enough to harm someone too without even knowing. Similarly, we don't needa react to everything, simply state a boundary, shut it down or just leave people to it.
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