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S Anil Kumar on Instagram: "Modern dating is full of double standards that most people pretend don't exist. If a woman says she wants a fit, successful, emotionally intelligent man: She's "high value." If a man says he wants a fit, feminine, and pleasant woman: He's suddenly "superficial" or "objectifying." Same energy. Different verdict. A woman with many past partners is often called "empowered." A man with the same history? "Player" or "emotionally unavailable." Someone cancels last minute or ghosts? If it's a man, it's "toxic masculinity." If it's a woman, "she's protecting her peace." Same energy. Different verdict. Men are told to drop traditional expectations, split everything 50-50, and to be vulnerable. Women are told never to lower their standards and that their feelings are always valid. One side is told to drop the old expectations, while the other side is encouraged to keep the best of both the old and the new rules. That's not equality. That's a rigged game. And that's not sustainable. So, don't be surprised if the dating world today is as messy as it is. As it is, there are some inherent double standards. Most women find roughly 80% of men unattractive and focus their attention on the top tier. Whereas men are far less selective. I call these asymmetries that derive from biological realities. Women bear a higher reproductive cost, so are naturally choosier. Men compete, women choose. That's how it is. Deal with it! Expecting equality in every interaction – women not getting attention from the men they desire, and men not getting attention from the majority of women – only breeds resentment on both sides. The way forward for anyone serious about a real relationship? Drop the slogans. Be honest about what you actually want. Be honest about what you bring to the table. Have real conversations instead of playing by politically correct scripts. That's how you find genuine compatibility. If you're a busy, accomplished single tired of the games, this is for you. Save this. Share it with someone who needs the reality check. For more unfiltered perspectives on life, love, and relationships, follow along. #ModernDating #DoubleStandards #RealTalk #Jodi365"