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Asalamu'alaikum ☕️🥀.
What's crazy is real lovers don't even do talking stages. All it takes is one good date and suddenly y'all are together every day after that. 😉🫰🏼

I rarely answer dms and when I did this is what I got!! 🙃 what is wrong with these people ?

Single mothers, particularly the divorced women are the most misjudged people and that's why a lot of people desperately stay in hellish marriages with a lot of people resulting to unimaginable measure just to maintain the tag" Married " . Sadly, children from such unions normalize the anomalies that they grow into and turn out worse .
I have seen women bend till they break just to keep their homes in place but as with every one and everything, they are limits.
As with a lot of women, I've had my own fair share of that but i also know how I've cried and bled in the dark ( in sujoud) so when I was done, i knew it from the echoes of every fibre of my being.
Am I still hurting? Definitely NO
Do i regret that my marriage ended with him? Certainly NO
Have i given up on marriage? NO
Do I want to try again? YES
I have healed and learned.
So, girls damn the shame and blame.
Single mothers are heroine raising amazing children and we deserve our 🌸🌺🌻🌹🌷🌼💐
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​A dream is a wish your heart makes when you're fast asleep

My mature side has been at the wheel since I got here …

Every time my inner goof wants to say something …

My brain be like

I had some Chinese noodles today 🇨🇳

Fun fact:

A while back, a man with HIV developed a type of cancer that looked nothing like any cancer known to doctors. Right before he passed away, the doctors discovered he was baring tapeworms in his gut, likely from his HIV immunosuppressed body and high sugar diet.

Anyways they found they his tapeworms had cancer and his body started developing tapeworm cancer as the HIV impaired his immune system.

Moral of the story. Don’t ever fornicate and get HIV. Or you’re screwed in this life, for life.

Do not mock a pain you haven't endured...!

Hay bb

#Father’s Day #Fatherhood #GenerationalChange
#MakeJamaaGreatAgain
I grew up in one of those traditional households where conversations with your father often feel like a mirage you keep chasing. Or perhaps, for a long time, you don’t even feel the need to chase it.

The conversations are functional and seem too NORMAL.

What are you doing?
How are your studies?
When are you coming home?

One of the signs of growing up is that your conversations with your father slowly changes.

It’s been rightly said that journey teach you not only about places, but about people and more importantly about yourself.

You discover places hidden behind mountains. You discover the person hidden behind religiosity. You meet new people, and sometimes you meet a shade of yourself.

I thank Allah SWT that in His infinite Hikmah, a family Umrah trip back in 2017 shattered many illusions I held about myself.

For the first time, it pushed me beyond the usual father-son formalities and forced us to interact as two human beings trying to understand each other.

So much has been mentioned in the Ahadith regarding the rights of parents and the affection and compassion parents should show towards their children.

Reading them only requires RELIGIOSITY.
Living them requires SPIRITUALITY.

One thing I have learnt over the years is that if your father belongs to a generation that speaks less and expresses even less, and if you ever wish to peek into his heart…

Look into his eyes and listen to your MOTHER.
She has witnessed a MAN become a FATHER.
And a CHILD become a MAN.

Today, what gives me immense happiness is seeing a generational transition taking place.

Education, exposure, faith and life experiences have softened many things that our fathers themselves inherited.

I see my brothers having conversations with their children that would have been unimaginable a generation ago.

Maybe this is how families evolve.

Not by rejecting the previous generation, but by understanding them, cherishing them and forgiving them.

So today, maybe call your father.
Sit with him.
Bring him something he likes.
Ask him about his friends. About the people who shaped his life before you became a part of it.

One day, maintaining some of those relationships may become our responsibility too, as our faith teaches us.

And while fathers may retire physically, don’t let them retire mentally and spiritually from caring for the people they have spent a lifetime caring for.

Because as children, we notice what our fathers give us.
As adults, we slowly begin to observe what they gave up for us.</CUSTOM_BOLD>

May Allah swt bless our parents, and make us a source of comfort and sadaqa-e-jariyah for them in this life, Ameen…