Random

How have you all spent your weekend? ☀️

Here girls are more interested in dogs and cats than humans, it should be like this, men are not loyal.

I don't get Shaz's post on who pays for first dates.

1. You all shouldn't be handing out alone with potentials in the first place.

2. It's the wali's job to provide (allowances..) for their daughters not a random non-mahram dude.

3. It's the wali's job to vet the potential to make sure he can provide for their daughter, while she can also choose to aid him. How is the wali supposed to do his job if you only introduce potentials after months/years of haram relationships?

This is what happens when you follow western dating culture, normalize haram and don't read/ follow the Quran. Not surprised since Muzz changed its motto from "Muslim marriage app" to "Muslim dating and marriage app".

I feel like I'm the weird one here sometimes.

Difference between two statements:

“If someone says 'I want you' instead of 'I choose you', take a step back 🚩. Wanting is temporary, choosing is a commitment.

The difference between these two sentences is vast. 'I want you' is driven by desire, often fleeting. It's about feeling something in the moment, without necessarily considering the long-term implications.

On the other hand, 'I choose you' is a conscious decision to prioritize and commit. It's about valuing the person, despite challenges, and being willing to put in the effort.

Never settle for someone who says 'I want you'. Choose the person who says 'I choose you' – it shows they're willing to put in the effort 💪.

The reality I often see on dating apps is that many men are looking for a kind, loyal, and genuinely loving woman. Yet when they find one, they often treat her as if she has no dignity and no feelings💫

It seems like my post researcher still wants to make fun of me.

The book tells me a to z of my background. The risks I will receive are positive and negative comments.

O my post researcher, you are not controlling our fortune.

All our bad pasts that we tell here may have takers. Characteristics of men like you. You want a woman from a rich family.

It's time to get married. Her parents will find a husband and you hope it's you because this woman is a rich person's daughter who has a good job and is highly educated. But this is life, full of colors.

Our colors are different. They are different. Your desires are looking for the perfect color. Stop making fun of me.

Are you sure that when you get married, your household will not divorce? I don't wish the worst for you.

Our status is widow. You have to learn to maintain your household so that your wife does not become a widow.

So, don't keep making fun of widows who have posts here that you research and look for their shame and then post them on your account. Our lives are a mess and it's fate that we have to rearrange, not that you have to comment on them and put them in your posts as a shame. Behind our messy lives, we have dignity.

did not abandon our Son and we did not abandon our mother. we work to send salaries to our mother's country for the living expenses of our mother and our son.

Do you still have a mother? Does your mother come from rich people who don't need your money? You never give money to your mother as your mother's monthly food expenses. Are you greater than us widowed women? May Allah bless your mother.

remember our past is messy and we will reorganize it to be neat stop insinuating us. you will become a father and maybe you will have a daughter one day.

Your daughter will get married. Be careful in speaking and insinuating widowhood.

Did anyone actually score a soulmate here, or what?

Good day jojn

Imagine disagreeing with my opinion which is underpinned by 52 research papers. You wouldn’t. Right?