All things marriage

Married men who happily offer to take other girls out for a drink...

dont your wives have THROATS for drinking too?
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Controversial take but this is based on my conversation with Arab girls on this app so far.

Turns out, Arab couples often start consummating their relationship after engagement (ring exchange). This appears to be a norm at least in couples living in the west whereas in non-Arab Muslim cultures this is frowned upon and the couple has to wait till the formal wedding event takes place and bride can start living with the groom.

Again no hate, just what I have observed. Perhaps my perception is wrong on this one

Assalamu Alaikum everyone.
I want to share my experience in the hope that it encourages more respect and awareness.
Has anyone here had a good experience using this app? I’ve been using it for almost three years, and unfortunately, I still haven’t found my life partner.
To be honest, I’ve had far more bad experiences than good ones. I don’t know why I keep meeting men who say they are looking for a serious relationship and want to get married. I always ask this question from the very beginning, and they assure me that they are searching for a wife.
However, when we meet, many of them don’t treat me with the respect I deserve. Instead, they try to touch me without my consent or make me feel uncomfortable. No woman should ever have to experience that.
I wear the hijab and clothing that fully covers my body according to Islamic teachings. But that should never be the reason someone respects me—or disrespects me. Every woman deserves respect, regardless of what she wears. Respect is a choice.
If your intention is only physical or casual, please be honest about it. Don’t pretend to be looking for marriage just to satisfy your own desires. Playing with someone’s trust and emotions can leave deep emotional scars.
Many women join dating apps because they genuinely hope to find a good husband. Please don’t take advantage of that hope. If you’re not serious, don’t lead someone on. And if a woman says “no” or sets a boundary, respect it immediately. Consent is not optional.
To all the good men out there, thank you for treating women with kindness and respect. And to those who don’t, I sincerely hope you remember that every woman you meet is someone’s daughter, sister, or future wife—and above all, she is a human being deserving of dignity.
Please don’t play with a woman’s heart, trust, or safety. We all deserve to be treated with honesty and respect.
May Allah guide us all to what is right.

Pakistanis are more keen to marry Arabs than vice versa. Typical combinations,

Rich/Handsome Pakistani man + Mid Arab girl

Mid Pakistani boss babe + 50/50 lifestyle handsome Arab man

I am yet to see a rich Arab man / family opt for a Pakistani woman.

No hate just an observation. You can swap Arab with Turkish here too.

What lots of the idiots here don’t realize is that some attractive woman are using them for escapism so that they don’t have to be confronted by their own reality their own tragedies so they want the attention to feel they have value and to ignore the pain, these fools are giving them that escapism they so desperately need

These women get 100s of these suckers constantly pedestalizing them it’s sooo cringe to see a man act like that imagine how these women think of you whilst you think I’m such a white knight loool

And these suckers will keep praising these women thinking they have a chance lool your being taken for a ride and these women KNOW IT 100% they are staying busy with these losers to suppress emotions and these suckers are giving it to them in spades

These men are like a drug for these type of women it’s like an addition to endorphins by getting praise from such randos that in an of it self tells you that quality of that person

Om2 royal

It's very difficult to find the right person here. Also, if you don't live in Europe or US, it's very very difficult. I still haven't given up...

feel so hopeless 🙈

A Weak person Questions your Choices, While a Strong and Understanding person Simply Gets things done. 🍓😈✌🏽🌸😎🤲

Hello! My name is Ehtesham. I am 21 years old and I am from Pakistan. I am an honest, respectful, and family-oriented person. I believe that trust, kindness, and mutual respect are the foundation of a happy marriage.
I am looking for a serious, halal marriage. I am open to marrying a divorced or widowed woman, with or without children, if we are compatible and respect each other. Age is not my priority. I value good character, honesty, and understanding more than anything else.
I hope to find a sincere life partner with whom I can build a peaceful and happy future.