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5 days ago

I'm from the UK I own my house, live alone recently I met a girl from Morocco she doesn't speak english properly but would like to get married. Only problem is will she be able to pass the English test if I bring her over. She covers wears hijab and is islamic. Which I cannot find here in the UK so I'm thinking of making the move to nikkah in a few months.

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If I have ADHD is it good idea to look for a girl who also has ADHD?

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What is the reason behind the compliment being "seen" without action !!
😃🤷‍♂️ انا كده استفدت ايه

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There is nothing as love without money. If you are not able to mantain the life she has given herself and do more doesnt mean she loves money...you need to work hard or get someone you can handle......men are becoming too lazy. A man should be the head

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Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.

They say marriage has its ups and down. True but it should never take away "muaddah and rahma" as it states in the Holy Qur'an. Muaddah is a special kind of love. Rahma or mercy is truly beautiful.

No one should tolerate rape, sexual abuse, slavery, mental health issues, and physical violence.

Prove to me that Allah ta'ala said you should live with these enlisted pains in your life?

Marriage is about peace. If the peace is gone then the purpose of marriage is gone and its time to say 'Auf Wiedersen."

My ex father in law and I from my first marriage were great friends but they obsessively loved their son to prevent violence after he drunk alcohol or was craving alcohol.

He used to beat me and forget about it but he never forgot the home address he was never paying rent for. He seemed to remember where he slept at peace and free food because he paid zilch.

Don't worry brothers and sisters, Islam has something called Kifarah (Karma). All that money my ex saved and it was £42k in 12 months got stolen by his 3rd wife when he remarried. He is on his 5th wife now. No joke and his parents don't say anything. Awww precious son.

I've gone through so much in my life. I pray my rank is special in the akhirah. Time to fight with Allah ta'ala in my salah yet again.

I pray Allah ta'ala eases the suffering of those who need Allah ta'ala the most, ameen. And remember, Islam is about peace and if that is gone in a marriage then say goodbye straight away.

There's police and there's domestic violence refuges and there's benefits or welfare. YOU CAN start again.

Don't be like me and wake up with bruises.

Alhamdulillah, it's the past now.

JazakAllahukhairan for reading and share your story.

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How can we judge people for their choices, when we know nothing about their options?

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Efforts are useless if you're not the person they want

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