All things marriage

Guys, please help me. How can I talk to the people whose profiles I liked? How can I message them?

I got a whatsapp message from someones mother saying they liked my profile and they shared their daughter details. I want to see the pictures but im not sure if its appropriate to ask. Any advices?

Advice for whoever is willing to take it

Assalamu Alaikum. Based on the Jamaa posts it seems like many of us looking for marriage have trouble communicating.

We have to remember that the people we are talking to online are not only a profile but a real human being.

You feel like a connection isn’t working out? Please communicate that, even if it’s not comfortable to do so. Don’t waste other people’s time or lead them on. If you don’t know how to, you can just follow this format:

• -Compliment a few good things you liked about them and their profile.
• -Say that you don’t a connection and wish them well.

It’s really that easy. We might not “owe” it to them but it’s common decency.

See a profile you like and want to compliment them? Please don’t just send a Hi/Hello/Hey or only make a generic comment on their looks. Actually take your time to read the profile, put what you liked into words, and why you think it could be a good match. No one wants low effort. Won’t always work. For the right person it will.

And hey, we all have our lives. If you are busy, just tell the other person. Don’t keep them guessing. Doesn’t take more than a minute to send a small message.

Lastly, please don’t pursue someone in hopes of changing them and their whole life style to fit yours. It’s better to find someone who already has similar values as you.

Good luck out there. Remember respect goes a long way.

Jazakallahu Khairan.

Love is not as beautiful as a song or beautiful words... but it is truly mysterious 😊😊😊😊

The biggest lesson I learned in life is whatever we get in this life is because Allah wills it

If he doesn't no matter how hard u try how many times u try how much and how many years u try u don't get it not even u put everything into it

Let's get sweet 💦

09/07/2026

Hope this date will mark of my POV.

Im just writing this for my notes only.

Let's keep try to know each other first and do some 3-5 times meet up than decide. Because we don't how will it be in future.

Soft heart, big dreams, and lots of du’as. Looking for someone to build a beautiful life with, in shaa Allah. 🌸

To survive the talking stage on muzz, is a huge milestone.
If you ever graduated from the talking stage, I'll urge you to celebrate 🥳 the small wins cuz it's wild out here.