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I have heard stories about women demanding excessive haq mehar on this app , anyone else met someone like that n is it always a red flag if women asks fr high haq mehar , I met someone on muzz , i liked them but had to refuse cuz everyone around me said she might run away with money she asked fr 25k mehar , belonged to a well off family too , what do guys think i believe i regret my decision mayb , bit everyone around me says m saved
Question, if you are madly in love with someone,… but there is a 18 year age gap between the 2 ( female being older ) ,….
Is it ok to marry that person regardless of what others may think?
Assalamualaikum.....full explanation of Quran 42:27 in the comments column.
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Yet, the most silent protection from Allah is when He saves your heart from slow destruction.
There are loves that Allah doesn't allow to end at the altar. Not because you're not good enough, but because if you continue, you'll lose the best part of your soul. Google can help explain the meaning of that long sentence, or what Islamic evidence can we equate it with? Why does my heart feel so sad when I read that sentence, I want to hide in a dark cave?
This sentence describes divine redirection. It means that when Allah removes a relationship from your life, it is not a punishment for your flaws. Instead, it is an act of silent protection to prevent your faith, character, or mental well-being from slowly eroding.
The Meaning Explained
Relationships that consume the "best part of your soul" usually mean you are compromising your boundaries, losing your peace (sakinah), or slowly letting someone take the place of Allah in your heart. Ending that connection before marriage saves your spirit from a deeper heartbreak down the road.
Islamic Evidence
This concept aligns beautifully with Qadar (Divine Decree) and the fundamental belief that Allah’s wisdom supersedes our desires.
Surah Al-Baqarah (2:216): "...But perhaps you hate a thing and it is good for you; and perhaps you love a thing and it is bad for you. And Allah knows, while you know not".
Tawakkul and Divine Protection: The belief that Allah answers your prayers by steering you away from harm you cannot see.
Why Does It Make You Sad?
It is completely normal to feel a heavy, overwhelming sadness when letting go of a deep love. The desire to "hide in a dark cave" stems from grief and the exhaustion of trying to understand why things didn't work out. Grief is a natural human emotion; letting go hurts even when you know it is best for your soul.
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