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Assalamualaikum to all
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is there any shia female
In khi age btwe 23 to 26
𝗠𝗮𝗻𝘆 𝗼𝗳 𝘂𝘀 𝗶𝗻𝘃𝗲𝘀𝘁 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲 𝗿𝗲𝘃𝗶𝗲𝘄𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗳𝗶𝗹𝗲𝘀, 𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗮𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗳𝗮𝗺𝗶𝗹𝗶𝗲𝘀, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗹𝗼𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗽𝗼𝘁𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗮𝗹 𝗺𝗮𝘁𝗰𝗵𝗲𝘀. 𝗨𝗻𝗳𝗼𝗿𝘁𝘂𝗻𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗹𝘆, 𝗮 𝗹𝗮𝗿𝗴𝗲 𝗻𝘂𝗺𝗯𝗲𝗿 𝗼𝗳 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗳𝗶𝗹𝗲𝘀 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗮𝗶𝗻 𝗼𝗻𝗹𝘆 𝗯𝗮𝘀𝗶𝗰 𝗶𝗻𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗺𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻, 𝘄𝗵𝗶𝗹𝗲 𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝗱𝗲𝘁𝗮𝗶𝗹𝘀 𝗮𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗶𝗻𝗱𝗶𝘃𝗶𝗱𝘂𝗮𝗹, 𝗳𝗮𝗺𝗶𝗹𝘆 𝗯𝗮𝗰𝗸𝗴𝗿𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗺𝗶𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴. 𝗔𝘀 𝗮 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘂𝗹𝘁, 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀 𝗼𝗳𝘁𝗲𝗻 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗴𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲 𝗯𝗲𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝗱𝗶𝘀𝗰𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮 𝗺𝗮𝗷𝗼𝗿 𝗶𝗻𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗽𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗯𝗶𝗹𝗶𝘁𝘆 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗰𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝗯𝗲𝗲𝗻 𝗶𝗱𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗳𝗶𝗲𝗱 𝗳𝗿𝗼𝗺 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗲𝗴𝗶𝗻𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴. 𝗧𝗼 𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗰𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝗲𝗮𝘀𝗶𝗲𝗿, 𝗺𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝘁𝗿𝗮𝗻𝘀𝗽𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻𝘁, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗳𝘂𝗹 𝗼𝗳 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆𝗼𝗻𝗲'𝘀 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲, 𝗜 𝘄𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱 𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗼𝘂𝗿𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗰𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗹𝘆 𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻:
✅ 𝗣𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗳𝗮𝗺𝗶𝗹𝘆 𝗯𝗮𝗰𝗸𝗴𝗿𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱
✅ 𝗖𝗶𝘁𝘆 𝗼𝗳 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗶𝗱𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗿𝗲𝗹𝗼𝗰𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗽𝗿𝗲𝗳𝗲𝗿𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲𝘀
✅ 𝗘𝗱𝘂𝗰𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗰𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗲𝗿 𝗱𝗲𝘁𝗮𝗶𝗹𝘀
✅ 𝗣𝗿𝗲𝗳𝗲𝗿𝗿𝗲𝗱 𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝗿𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲 (𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗶𝘁 𝗶𝘀 𝗳𝗹𝗲𝘅𝗶𝗯𝗹𝗲)
✅ 𝗖𝗮𝘀𝘁𝗲 𝗽𝗿𝗲𝗳𝗲𝗿𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 (𝗶𝗳 𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁𝗮𝗻𝘁)
✅ 𝗦𝗲𝗰𝘁 𝗽𝗿𝗲𝗳𝗲𝗿𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 (𝗶𝗳 𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁𝗮𝗻𝘁)
✅ 𝗠𝗮𝗿𝗶𝘁𝗮𝗹 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝘁𝘂𝘀 𝗿𝗲𝗾𝘂𝗶𝗿𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀
✅ 𝗙𝗶𝗻𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗶𝗮𝗹 𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀 (𝗶𝗳 𝗮𝗻𝘆)
✅ 𝗔𝗻𝘆 𝗻𝗼𝗻-𝗻𝗲𝗴𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗮𝗯𝗹𝗲 𝗿𝗲𝗾𝘂𝗶𝗿𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀.
I don't like people who use 1 aspect of the religion but don't apply unilaterally. An accountant wanted to meet me with a mehram but herself didn't cover up, couldn't back her argument with daleels and used foul language. No wonder why searching is so messed up!
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Serious question but keep it halal 😅
What’s one small green flag that would make you think, “okay, this person might actually be marriage material”?
For me, it’s emotional maturity — someone who can communicate properly, has good adab when they disagree, and still knows how to laugh about the small things.
Curious what everyone else thinks 👀
Btw, the successful men weren’t on the discord chat because they’re actually busy working important jobs and earning good money and also have actual lives. Lol. It’s the jobless ones that were on it.