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My family bas been looking for proposals in these country based Muslim sites or these matrimonial groups for ages, I’m looking to find someone over here and elsewhere.. why it’s gotta be so hard?? I went to an all girls international school, most of college was online cuz of covid, nothing much in workplace either because it’s small and lots of women.. The opportunity to naturally meet someone is so low nowadays..sigh I’m just gonna make some chocolate chip muffins and take a nap
Ronay Tuğal | Psikolog & Aile Danışmanı on Instagram: "🛋️Bir ilişkiyi ayakta tutan şeyler biride; iki insanın birbirinden gerektiğinde içtenlikle “özür dileyebilmesidir”. Gurur yapmadan, savunmaya geçmeden, sadece kalpten: “Evet, hata yaptım. Seni kırmak istemezdim” diyebilmesidir. Kolay değil… Çünkü gurur her zaman araya girmeye hazır. 🌟Kusursuz insan yada ilişki yoktur. Tartışmalar olur, yanlış anlaşılmalar yaşanır, bazen kelimeler kırıcı olabilir. Ama önemli olan, hatalara takılıp kalmamak ve aradaki o bağı koparmamak. 🌟Evlilik, iki kişinin de büyümeye açık olduğu bir alandır. Bazen susmak, bazen ilk adımı atmak, bazen sadece “seni seviyorum” diyebilmektir… 🌟Eğer şu an bir ilişkideyseniz ya da evliyseniz, kendinize şunu sorun: 📍“Ben ne zaman en son gerçekten özür diledim?” Ya da 📍“Affetmekte neden zorlandım?” 🍀İlişkiler, iki taraf da elini taşın altına koyduğunda güçlenir. Ve bu güç, dışarıdan değil, içeriden geliyor. Kalpten. ✨ Ben Psikolog ve Aile Danışmanı Ronay Tuğal, Seanslar hakkında bilgi ve yardım almak için iletişime geçebilirsiniz. 📩[email protected] 📩DM . . . . . #onlineterapi #psikolog #ankarapsikolog #psikoloji #fyp"
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Ibn al-Jawzi says:
If Allāh dislikes a person, He leaves him constantly stumbling and confused in every situation. He does not grant him the aspiration to seek lofty goals, instead he is occupied with vile matters instead of virtuous. And if he asks, ‘Why have I been singled out for this?!’ the reply comes…
A reply that cannot be contested:
‘It is because of what your own hands have earned.’
(Sūrah al-Shūrah, 30)
In life we feel stumbling, confused and not having exceptional goals at multiple stages and in various situations - does this mean Allah dislikes that person?
--- My take:
It won't be that Allah dislikes you, but that Allah dislikes what you do, i see it too, i see people who are selfish in the sense that when a poor person from online, a person from Yemen, or G4z4, will message them asking for money
They might give a few coins, they might give more, but never do they think to themselves "if i was rich i could give a whole lot more"
They should think this and then try to become rich, and fight every obstacle and not stop until they are rich!!
We don't even want this to begin with, why then should we expect Allah to inspire lofty goals in our hearts?
We worry about ourselves, and our desires, do we ever worry for the Ummah, for the people in G4za, Syria, Sudan... (it's a very long list)
Imagine what we would think, if we were in their shoes, when we look to our brothers in the west, they give a pound or two and say "sorry im trying to feed my own family"
And then, should we wonder, if Allah dislikes what we do?
Should we wonder why then Allah does not grant us lofty ambition?
Because we are on our way to being replaced by those who will sacrifice for the Ummah, it is they who will be granted lofty ambitions..
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To answer final question, it's not that Allah dislikes you, but Allah pushes you to become greater, instead of becoming greater we cry "why me"
Does the steel cry when it's being bashed again and again, and then melted in the furnace?
Or does it become a sharp, capable, dangerous sword?
Soufyane DERDOUR on Instagram: "Comment trouver la bonne personne ?"
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Many people get married without fully understanding what marriage is.
Rights and Responsibilities in Marriage
HUSBAND: He should take care of his wife, provide her with food, clothing, and accommodation, treat her with good character, and not oppress her. "The best among you is the one who is best to his wife." (Tirmidhi).
WOMAN: She should obey her husband in matters that do not contradict the will of Allah, take care of the home, and maintain her dignity.
Each of them: To be garments for one another (libas) – to protect each other, to feel comfortable and.