All things marriage

As-salamu Alaikum everyone! 🌿
I hope you're all doing well. Looking for someone who values kindness, honesty, and faith. Let's build something meaningful, insha'Allah

When evaluating a girl I rate her as follows:
0-5 points for physical attraction
0-5 points for personality & character
9 points means she can be considered for marriage.

Hello
Hello Asllam o Alekum

Assalamu'alaikum 👋🏻
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My GoaL Married TAARUF Without Date First.
HeaLthy ReLationShips BuiLt With Communication,
ResponsibLe N Commitment.
BeLieve ALLah WiLL Give Best Match

حببتَ أو أحببتَ أو اهتممتَ أو أعجبتَ بشخصٍ ما، فإنّ النية لله🤲🏻 لم نُشرك الله في ذلك، سيبدو العالم باهتًا، وسنشعر بالملل والتعب سريعًا،ولن يبقى لدينا أيّ حماس🙏🏻آمن وكن على يقينٍ بأنّ الله معنا دائمًا في كلّ حين

● Sincere Serious, Man WiLL Not Remain SiLent WiLL Fight.
The Phase Of Getting To Know The CoupLe ActuaLLy Begins After iJab Qobul iN The Wedding Not Dating.
i WouLd Prefer Serious Approach Just Chat CaLL Like Normal PeopLe, Without inappropriate.

● i WaNt NiKAH TAARUF (isLamic Courtship) Arrangement.
Serious You Go Come Soon To My PLace Meet My Parents To Propose To Marry Me iN Jakarta There in Accordance With Tradition,
ReLigious Law,
State ReguLations.
No Nikah Sirih Unregistered Marriage But Want To Get LegaLLy Married.

● Men Who Dont Have Certainty Mean HaLf A Heart.
Certainty iS Not Wait But Asked,
Not ManipuLative.
iF He Can't Answer iT With Certainty,
iT CLearLy Means He Doesn't Have Any Serious iNtentions And Don't Waste Me Time Waiting For Man Who Doesn't Have Commitment,
There iS No CLarity, There iS No Certainty.

● Me Traumatized i Was Boyfriend For 3Th,
OnLy For iT To End iN Divorce After 20Th Together
Has 4 Kids (2Boys&2GirLs) :

🧒 1 With Me = 19Th (BoY)
👬 3 With X-Husband = 16Thn(GiRL), 10Thn(GiRL) & 4Thn (BoY).

The Divorce Process End Of The Year 2021,
OfficiaLLy Divorced The State iN ReLigious Court 2023

✍️🏻 I am simply a woman who is officially divorced and a widow.
I am just an ordinary woman.
I am not wealthy.
I am not well off.
I just a person who currently has nothing.
My life used to be luxurious and comfortable,
but the wheel of fate has turned 360°.
I am at rock bottom, possessing nothing,
I am currently unemployed.
The business I built from 2009 to 2023 has completely collapsed and been destroyed.
I have experienced many ups and downs in business.
Many competitors tried to bring me down,
yet I stood firm only to be brought low by the person closest to my heart my own ex-husband.
He shattered the dreams I had built from scratch dreams I had nurtured until they reached their peak causing everything to come crashing down completely.
Honestly deep down, what truly devastates me is the fear that any man who gets close to me will regret knowing me in my current state having nothing, being just an ordinary person rather than someone wealthy.
if allah grants me a partner again someone living abroad it means He is giving me the very best.
i entrust everything to God,
for He surely knows what is best for me and what isnot.
Always involve allah in absolutely everything.
Love finding a sanctuary where you feel most at ease when the world is in chaos.
it is someone who loves my best self and embraces my flaws,
shielding them from the world.
Love is a conscious decision to stay,
Even when storms test the foundation of commitment.
Someone capable of hearing what remains unspoken,
Understanding what i am trying to hide.
Love is the courage to be honest even when it is difficult for the sake of the trust being built.it encourages me to grow without ever making me feel sad or disappointed.
True love isn't about finding perfect person.
it’s about building commitment with someone who acknowledges their own imperfections.
Don't let go of the person who brings you peace not just fLeeting pLeasure.

● The GoaL For Marriage iS To GrowOLdTogether, Happy, CaLm, Safe, ComfortabLe With Him.
Married To Man Provider, Kind, LoyaL, Sincere, The Right Partner, Pious, Open, Good MoraLs, There iS Faith Taqwa, Love, Affection, EquaL, Honest, ResponsibLe Man,
ALways Present ConsistentLy,
ALways There iS DaiLy Consistent Communicates A Lot, Not His Words But His Actions iN A ReaL Definitive Way,The Man Who Can Comprehend Me, Understand Me, Appreciate Me, Respect Me, Can Keep His Heart And Can Keep His Eyes OnLy For Me,Generous Man, DoesNot Leave Worship, Gives More Effort Support.

● Love is Not About Age And Not About The Past, The GoaL OnLy SoLeLy Because Of Allah Seen From About Character, Good Behavior, Responsibility, Nature Enough Thinking, Accepting ALL My Weaknesses, Strengths And Excessions.
i Am Very ValuabLe iN His Eyes.

● Men who are not Permitted to be Married in IsLam :

1. Never prays
2. Have bad character traits and morals
3. Are rude and don't use their hands
4. Have no income
5. Like to glance at other women, can't control their gaze,are friendly to all women
6. Drink aLcohol and gamble
7. Are stingy,patriarchal,lazy
8. Have wives who are ordered to work as heads of households because men earn little and women do everything from small to Large tasks.

● The Deepest in My Heart :
For Dating, Sorry i Don't Want Because I'm Afraid :

1. Fear Of Sin
2. Fear Of Karma Hitting The ChiLd
3. Fear Of BetrayaL
4. Fear Of Disappointment
5. The Point iS To Fear Being Traumatized Again.

● I've Been SteriLized So i Can't Give Birth To ChiLdren For My New Husband Later Because i Gave Birth To My 4 Kids By Cesarean Section.
if You Are Looking For Woman Who Can Give You ChiLdren When You Marry. Sorry , Me Not Woman You Are Looking For 🙏🏻

iN This Life,
ALways invoLve ALLah iN iT So That Our Lives Are Made Easier.
For Me Honesty iS The Main Capital iN Life.
i Like A Man Provider ,
A Partner Who VaLues ​​PrincipLes.
A Great Man iS Not One Who Has Much Love,
But One Who Can Reject The Presence Of Another Love iN Order To Maintain One Love.

💜 ViAnTy DeStY 💜

Sometimes you gotta kiss a lot of frogs before you find a prince 🤣

Heey everyone I need to have friends 👋🏻

I Believe Most Men Really Think They Are Ready For Marriage, And That Money Is The Only Barrier Holding Them Back.
But what they fail to realize is.... even if you aren’t rich in wealth
Are You Rich In The Things That Actually Sustain A Home?
Are You Rich In Patience And Kindness?
Are You Rich In Emotional Maturity And Self Discipline?
Are You Rich In Compassion And Empathy When Things Don’t Go Your Way?
Are You Rich Spiritually And In Your Deen?
In Your Behavior?
And In Your Thoughts?
Are You Rich In Wisdom, Knowledge, And Understanding?
Are You A Giver Or Does It Come With Conditions?
Have y'all actually done your Homework?
Or do you still think a lack of money is the only reason you aren't married yet?
And for the men who are wealthy......
Don’t be so poor that all you have is money.

Howe are you

Hello ladies, the case involving the predator named Shahir Mostafa has been resolved his Muz account has been permanently banned. if u encounter him again or if he creates a new account under a different name, please be careful. he is a predator who targets women to manipulate and exploit them. hello, if u encounter a lewd man on the Muz app, do not hesitate to report and block him. if a man asks to meet up, please do not agree to meet him alone, bring friends or family along. do not trust just anyone too easily. there are many human trafficking cases these days, so please be cautious.

remember, predators are everywhere u must be careful.

thank u to the Muz team for being so efficient and prudent. i appreciate the Muz team's swift handling of this matter.♥️

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