All things marriage

I never understood how women thinks not me anyone never did 😂😂. So if u talk logical they get snapped if you talk foolish they get snapped if you say truth they get snapped and if u say lies they get snapped. So in conclusion they are not our kind of species 😂.

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I have always had a strong desire to marry a foreign woman someday.

Salaams ladies and gentleman I really need your input I have been speaking to a women recently matched and I had phone call with her lasted four hours. However she is lovely and has good traits and genuinely very down to earth. However I came across lots of red flags she has got some male best friends she been smoking weed and drinking in past also has or willingly to stay out late at shisha lounges with her mates males/females friends to socialise. To make things better she has hugged or kissed another men before. All this she has mentioned has really got me thinking that is all against my morals like I want a wife who has never been in relationship loyal and strongly been away from all these place and done crazy stuff. What’s confusing about the situation is that we should never judge someone as it’s Allah swt who can do so as none of us perfect but at the same time if she is mother to my children and has done madness like what she mentioned I don’t want to destroy my future and families that are involved. What do you think guys it’s best to move on or ignores the bad sides and give it try see if a person will change after marriage.

Getting to know someone through online apps is genuinely concerning.
Sometimes I come across someone whose posts are filled with Islamic reminders, and I become interested in knowing them better… until I see their comments.
The way someone presents themselves and the way they actually interact with others can be very different.
May Allah guide us all and protect our hearts.

“Be the reason someone believes today can still be beautiful.”

No we are looking for financial stability. I don’t know why men always exaggerate or let this point fly over your heads.

"As long as your self employment is stable or you have a backup / you have a transferable and employable skill set  it should be no issue for the right woman." - if she writes like this she is not marriage matetial

Pro tip for girls to avoid wasting their time because clock is ticking for them….don’t entertain men who ghost you…max one day and then unmatch. Why? I have 7 years of experience in match searching and realized men only ghost women they feel not so important and when you keep waiting and text them to get answer they further develop this impression that oh yes she is not going anywhere so I can treat her just the way I want…then manipulation starts….and in the end its not worth it trust me…unmatch and move on

I can't tell them directly they will feel bad. It's the camera angle looks like a passport photo. Maybe put something up to the side and change your back ground. Don't look so intensely into the camera at the close range also a nice beard line will help.

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