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Please stop 20s single guys msging me I'm a widow 40 with two kids I'm sorry but can't waste our time thanks
Salaam everyone!
I want to sum opinions on this…. A guy hit me up asking to see my body, we are not married or anything, I am a Muslim woman and that’s not how ai roll has anyone else have that happen here? And what should I do?
Not everything deserves a reaction..
Some thing deserves your silence…
You can’t control how people treat you..
But you can control how long you let it ruin your mood…
Every minute you spend reliving it..
You’re getting away piece of your peace..
Chose your calm over your ego..
Some battles are won the moment you stop fighting them…
Good night 😴
Last week I have been thinking about how marriage worked before ?Why there were no much divorces ? In my inner discussion I have concluded good and bad sides of the “good old days marriage “
Positive sides are that :
- People actually were valuable for each other
- Having tawakkul in Allah in their choices
- Not being picky
- No hate for the opposite gender
- Trying to solve the issue that comes up and improve themselves
Negative sides:
- Lack of education and job for women made them financially dependent on man and burden to their own families which made them stay
2)Fear of becoming second sorted in the society
3)Normalising abuse and manipulation that made it hard for both partners to leave due to their fear of judgement from their surroundings
4)Kids and their future
This is my subjective opinion based on my culture and the life stories I have seen from my surroundings
Some people they loose real people around him they loose them cuz real people loves you they gonna tell you truth but fake people they always say you good they never say to you nothing they don't wanna upset you cuz they knows they gonna loose this comfortable zone but real people they don't care about this was with you before you become famous and rich and they don't care about your money they don't care about your fame they just live you and when they say to you truth you don't like this cuz of your ego!!!🙌🏼