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To all the men out there,
Please don't waste a woman's precious time. Don't give her false hope or make promises you don't intend to keep.
If you're serious, be honest with your intentions. If you're not, walk away with respect. Time is something no one can ever get back.
We make this harder than what it is. Just be who you are and where you are in life 🤷🏿♂️
Bajabahsbbsh
Assalamu Aleykum friends,how are you all?i am here for the first time
I’ve reached a medically concerning conclusion on behalf of everyone else and their mental peace.
The next time I voluntarily participate in another discussion about mothers, wives, husbands, and their rights will be after I get married. Until then, I am officially retiring from the discourse.
I’ve somehow developed enough opinions to defend a marriage that currently exists only in Allah’s qadr and my duas. I’m out here negotiating imaginary family dynamics, mediating fictional arguments, and drafting peace treaties for people who haven’t even entered my life yet.
It’s actually getting ridiculous.
I’m arguing over who gets the front seat in a car I don’t own, setting boundaries with in-laws I’ve never met, and resolving hypothetical conflicts with a spouse whose face I don’t even know. At this point, I’m basically conducting free premarital counseling… for myself.
I’ve written enough essays to earn a doctorate in Imaginary Marriage Studies. Imagine defending your PhD thesis for a university that hasn’t even accepted your application yet. My research consists of 3 a.m. fever-induced delirium, sleep deprivation, overthinking, and way too many opinions from my feed. My thesis has been peer-reviewed by absolutely nobody.
So that’s it. The institute is closing for the time being. Admissions are suspended. Research grants have been revoked. The ethics committee has denied all further speculation until fieldwork officially begins.
May Allah send the spouse before He sends me another mother vs. wife post in my feed, because this unpaid internship has gone on long enough.
A successful marriage depends not only on an abundance of love, but also on how well the couple handles disagreements
