All things marriage

Matched with someone here, we talked for a bit, then got blocked out of nowhere. No explanation, nothing.
Genuine question why do people do this instead of just saying, not feeling it? A little honesty costs nothing and saves the other person from overthinking.
Not mad, just curious how common this is. Anyone else deal with this a lot on here?

The distinction lies between a woman who desires the title of being married versus one who is actively prepared to build a lifelong partnership as a wife. A woman seeking a husband often focuses on what she can gain—such as financial security, status, or social validation. Conversely, a woman ready to be a wife focuses on character, emotional maturity, mutual submission, and what she can actively contribute to her partner's life

Assalamualaikum
I Have A Question To Females.
Is Marriage Easy Because If You Find Flaws In Boys

Allah says in His Book:

"Take from their wealth a charity by which you purify them and cause them to increase." (Qur'an 9:103)

According to science, for an atom to become stable, it has to gain or lose an electron.

Since we are made of atoms, perhaps stability follows a similar principle: giving and receiving.

But why, as we grow older, does this concept sometimes stop making sense? Why does all the knowledge we gain seem to challenge one of the most basic principles of life?

I remember when I was a college student. I wasn't emotionally balanced at all, but a friend noticed that I had a lot to give and chose me as a friend.

Now we're older. I've become calmer and more emotionally stable. Yet there's still a part of me—Alhamdulillah, one that I can control—that naturally tends to give. I know this tendency comes from trauma. But in the end, that trauma is still part of me, isn't it?

Most likely, it will never heal completely. However, being aware of it keeps me from making choices based only on it.

So if I choose certain people and places because of my trauma, along with other reasons, is that necessarily wrong?

And if it is wrong, why has my friendship lasted successfully for 16 years?

Is fear the missing ingredient? Is it the one thing that makes the equation unbalanced?

Psychology says that if you keep choosing the same story with different people, you're attached to an unfinished ending—you keep trying to rewrite it.

Fair enough. But I chose that story in the first place for a reason, didn't I?

What if surrounding myself with similar circumstances actually helps me heal? And what if it helps others heal too, since I naturally choose places and people who genuinely need me?

So... why not?

If you've ever thought about these questions and found answers, I'd love to hear your perspective. 😊

As salaamu alaikum. Wa Rahmatullah Wa Barakatuhu. My name is Sheik Bilal Abdul Salaam-Bey. I'm 34,single, no kids from Wichita Kansas. I'm Moorish American. I'm a member of Moorish Science Temple of America. I live life on the principles of Love, Truth, Peace, Freedom and Justice. I am looking for a woman who actively practices Islam

I matches this girl and within minutes unmatched!!

Why?

I asked her what qualities she is looking in a man? ( i asked this in general and also her bio was blank)
To which she replied, " just man"

Which makes me thinking

I asked, does only your parents want you to get married asap?
To which she unmatched me !!!

I was wondering , have i asked wrong ?

Any inputs girls?

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I just got here, really interested in knowing sm new ppl!

Aslam walekum all of you my name is musadiq baloch form Karachi I New member in this app

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