All things marriage

I might need someone to teach me this App ASAP

I keep seeing profiles of women who have good careers and want their husband to be equally, if not more ambitious. Women really need to understand that most practicing, muslim man who are ambitious in their careers (where he will improve his earning potential) will NOT want to be with another career-oriented woman. Men and women are NOT the same! A financially successful muslim man will NOT gravitate to a career oriented woman or a 'boss babe'.

Ask yourself this, if the man is a practicing muslim and earns enough to provide for his wife on a single income, why on earth would he want his wife to be working a full time job where she is out of the house for the majority of the time, in a free mixing environment and will not be able to dedicate her time to maintaining the home and nurturing children which is her primary responsibility in islam (not her career)?

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DVqBst_kiTQ/?igsh=MWE3aTdkaTE3NnYxcw==

This sums up the modern women.
The man they are after will pump and dump them while the one who wants to marry them will be crucified!

POV: My jodoh’s hilal is on ‘loading’… since 2015 📶😭

Allah: Trust the process.
Me: The process is taking too long, ya allaaah 🥹😭

This app is not working. I’m going to start looking for my husband on LinkedIn.

Why most people looking for women?

Always humble yourself.

Remember that regardless of your position, your looks, your wealth or your legacy, you are weak. Really weak. You can not stand a day of sickness, escape death or compare in size or powers to other creatures like Angels as just one example.

Remember that you had a hard time finding an option/suitable option in real life, that is why you are here on the app.

Remember that whenever you dumb/fumble a genuine person with a big heart, you did them a big favor. It is your loss (not theirs) and yes, you will not meet somebody as genuine and as kind as them.

Remember that the value of donia is much less worth than the size of a mosquito wing in the sight of Allah. Which means you will see that a non believer or a bad person may succeed in this donia and have a great luck, and you or any other believer will face hardships. Hardships can be a test or lack of Allah’s blessing because you did not consider Him in your plans and your actions.

Remember that everything is written. You will not escape your fate whether it is good or bad. If you are to have a partner/a good partner in this donia, you will witness it. No one can benefit, or prevent you from getting that.

Is thers real connection here
Like people actually wonna get married like i do ?

I've never been outside Nigeria before, I can say with utmost certainty and a clear conscience that Nigerian men are the one and only true romantic gender, who makes endless sacrifices. The average Nigerian woman won't even agree to contribute to her own household but like to say "I love you". How can you love someone and not sacrifice and make their life easy....