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Last week, I met someone online and we started talking. Very quickly, I noticed the conversation felt one-sided. She would reply and joke around, but she never really asked questions about me or showed much curiosity about getting to know who I was. At first, I considered ghosting, but I decided to communicate instead. I told her that I like to feel genuinely wanted in a conversation and that I'd only continue if that changed. To her credit, she apologized, and we kept talking.
Then, two days later, I noticed something else: if I didn't send a message first, we simply wouldn't talk.
The first day passed. Nothing.
The second day, I reached out and we chatted.
The third day, I got busy and didn't send my usual morning message. She didn't message either.
Brethren, we haven't spoken since that day.
That's a small glimpse into what the dating pool looks like these days. 😂
Insha'Allah, the right person at the right time.
So he sent me a video him having intercourse with another woman ..
Why ! What would you do ?.
I have feared & don’t like delhi people from a very long time I don’t it as a city but its people & immodest culture etc but then few days back I have my marriage profile on another app & got a request from man, studied in UK father has business & sisters settled in abroad. He was not like any other man He was intentional, Religious, Have a purpose & beautiful nature
I had told my brother about him & he Found him nice & good I told him that I have discussed w my brother abt you & he said.. Your brother & family will definitely like me & I’ll try my best to be good for them n you
Next day I talked about him to my mum & She agreed to talk to him mom😭😭
I haven’t told him about my mum yet but that night after dinner He suddenly disappeared
We texted on that app so we didn’t exchanged socials or numbers etc
He disappeared whole night I was worried then whole day I become tensed & messaging him in every few hours
In evening I had some doubt that he is fake but no evidence I even told my brother he said He can’t be fake but then when he googled his picture… it was a picture of instagram influencer 😭😭 I got scammed😭😭 I was feeling so heavyy I cried sooo muchh😭😭 ya Allah why mee😭😭 first time my parents got agreed to someone like this & he was fake?? Promising future & meeting each other families? Going on family trips together? Everythingg was a play???
Using words like fi amanillah? Jazakallah khair? Being a deenful person? Talking about our families meeting up & family trips???😭😭 People should realise what they have do to other person’s emotions 😭😭🥺 Now literally I have trust issues I didn’t have before..but my heart literally aches When I think about the trauma he gave me. I will never forgive him wallahi wallahi wallahi wallahi he will be answerable to Allah on qiyamah😭😭 for those who have created Fake accounts in other names etcc pleaseee stopp ruining other people’s life😭😭