All things marriage

ALL MEN ARE THE SAME — REJECTED. ☕

Girls love complaining that all men are the same, but the truth is you consistently ignore the respectful, focused guys and run after the toxic ones who reply after 6 hours and treat you like an option. 🤦‍♂️

Then you expect a mature, disciplined man to heal the trauma you got from choosing the wrong person.

Ladies, why is a focused, busy man who's actually working on his future considered "boring," while a toxic guy is considered exciting"? Make it make sense.

Salaam all people,

I’m new here and just wondering how the entire dating thing works like are we suppose to swipe a random girl just texting you with hey you’re cute like idk how to go about it honestly

Hi 👋🏻

Feeling the cold wind got me thinking...
For all those who are disheartned or in despair, let this coolness following the scorching heat be a reminder and a source of hope.
Surely with hardship comes ease.

Dear singles, I'm truly heartbroken for you... This is for you...💔🥹

Too many beautiful souls are still single, waiting patiently, protecting their chastity and virginity for the sake of Allāh, while hoping that one day their sincere duʿāʾs will be answered. May Allāh never let your patience go unrewarded.

I pray that by next Ramaḍān, you'll be happily married, in shāʾ Allāh, blessed with rizq, a loving family, and righteous children.

Say AMEEN and drop ❤️

Raja Raad ✍

Hi

So I asked AI why muslim men aren't getting married this is the answer I got

Financial barriers, changing cultural expectations, and modern shifting social dynamics are the primary reasons why many Muslim men are delaying or avoiding marriage. While Islam strongly encourages marriage as a foundational sunnah (tradition), navigating contemporary economic and societal shifts has made entering into marriage increasingly complex.Economic ChallengesFinancial Providership Pressure: Islamic law designates men as the primary financial maintainers of the household. High living costs, inflation, and stagnant wages make many working-class men feel financially inadequate to support a wife.Burdensome Wedding Costs: Cultural expectations often dictate massive, expensive wedding celebrations, high dowries (mahr), and extensive furniture or housing demands. This forces many men into long waiting periods to avoid entering a marriage in heavy debt.Sharia vs. Secular Law Risks: In Western countries, some men express fear regarding the legal risks of divorce. Balancing Islamic marital obligations alongside secular family court outcomes causes hesitation for asset-secure men.Cultural and Social ShiftsHyper-Romanticism and Unrealistic Standards: Social media consumption has elevated expectations regarding beauty, wealth, lifestyle, and immediate marital perfection. Both men and women frequently struggle to find partners who meet these idealized criteria.The Illusion of Boundless Choice: The rise of digital matchmaking and matrimonial applications creates a "paradox of choice". This abundance mindset leads to hyper-selectivity, where men continue swiping or looking for someone better instead of committing.Erosion of Community Matchmaking: Traditional matchmaking infrastructures, such as active neighborhood networks or mosque-led matching, have largely declined. This creates a massive gap in access, making it difficult for qualified men to meet serious prospects naturally.Lifestyle and Educational MisalignmentsEducational and Professional Mismatches: In many regions, Muslim women are outpacing Muslim men in higher education and professional career achievements. This dynamic can create misalignments in lifestyle expectations, financial contributions, and traditional gender roles.Desire for Autonomy and Personal Freedom: A growing subsegment of men prioritize extreme personal independence, career building, or individual lifestyles over the heavy shared responsibilities and compromises required in marriage.

Hy Everyone,
How you guys doing ?
1st post.

Anxiety is legitimate in Islam. In fact many verses in alquran are Allah talking to our Prophet s.a.w. to address his anxiety and sadness. The solution is to talk to Allah and pray.

قَالَ إِنَّمَآ أَشْكُوا بَثّي وَحُزْنِي إِلَي اللَّهِ وَأَعْلَمُ مِنَ اللَّهِ مَا لا تَعْلَمُونَ “He said: ‘I only complain of my anguish and my grief to Allah, and I know from Allah that which you do not know’.” (Yusoof, 12:86)

Allah is the provider of all things. Happy and sadness also his creation:

وَأَنَّهُۥ هُوَ أَضْحَكَ وَأَبْكَىٰ (٤٣) And that it is He who makes [one] laugh and weep (an najm, 53:43)

One way to seek Allah help is by performing salath and sabr (be patience). Salath and zikir are the best medicine for all situation.

Albaqarah, 2:245,246 ArRa’d, 13:28

Many speaker talk about this. Perhaps you can find them on your own.

لَا تَحْزَنْ إِنَّ اللَّهَ مَعَنَا

“Do not grieve. Allah is with us."

الله أعلم

How can we be fine , without need of having supportive partner?🙄