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1. The obligation of obedience
   (b) Making herself available to her husband
   (c) Not admitting anyone whom the husband dislikes
   (d) Not going out of the house except with the husband’s permission
   (e) Discipline
   (f) The wife serving her husband
   (g) Submitting herself to him
   (h)The wife should treat her husband in a good manner

These are the duties of a wife in Islam

So dear men if a woman talks about her financial right at the time of marriage and it's written make sure u take all of the above point in written at the time of marriage and if one this duty is not fulfilled the marriage should be void and her financial right to dowry should be revoked

Because it happened to me I gave a house and gold in dowry but my ex wife treated it like a business and within 6 months filed for divorce after taking 10 million pkr worth of assets from me , she wanted more when I declined she got abusive and I had to give her divorce meanwhile she didn't fulfill any of her duties

Everything is all about timing. Don’t rush the process.

Someone asked me if I could unblur my photos, but as far as I know, a man can blur photos.

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Just something I wanted to share for all those looking and caring after loved ones whilst looking for the other half.

The hidden weight of caregivers:
I didn't realise how much I was carrying until I couldn't hold it together anymore.

Not because I wasn't strong. Not because I didn't care. But because holding everything together for your family for too long eventually catches up with you.

As a family carer, you learn how to stay composed. How to think clearly under pressure. How to show up for the person you love—no matter what you're feeling inside. But no one really talks about what that costs.

The emotional weight.
The constant, 24/7 responsibility.
The pressure to stay steady... even when you're completely exhausted.

Burnout doesn't always look like walking away. As a family member, walking away isn't even an option.

Sometimes it looks like continuing to show up... while quietly feeling overwhelmed. Sometimes it looks like being the calm voice for everyone else—while your own emotions are sitting just beneath the surface.

This is the part of family caregiving that isn't always visible. The part where you've been strong for so long... you don't even realise how much you're holding.

You're not weak for feeling this.
You're human.
And you don't have to carry it all on your own.

If you are balancing your career while managing medications, medical appointments, housing or council social welfare updates, legal responsibilities like Lasting Power of Attorney, or daily care for a relative, you know exactly what this feels like.

It means:

• Chasing emails and making phone calls during your lunch break.
• ⁠Fighting for assessments and drowning in endless local authority paperwork.
• ⁠Carrying the mental load of coordinating doctors, social workers, and care plans.
• ⁠Stepping out of meetings to handle a sudden, urgent family emergency.
• ⁠Reviewing bank statements and managing financial affairs late at night.
• ⁠Constantly worrying about their safety while trying to stay focused on work.

If you're learning how to care for others without losing yourself in the process, you are not alone.

We need to talk more about carer burnout, emotional resilience, and the parts of looking after a loved one that no one prepares you for.

The most delusional people on this app are those who make their marriage search like a job application with a laundry list of requirements to meet in order to be considered.