THINGS RARELY FOUND IN THE BIO OF PEOPLE ON MUZZ!

(Part-1: Non-negotiables)
Male Version

My Non-Negotiables are: (and these are easy to adopt and getting used to)

1- Someone who considers their body an Amanah of Allah and tries to keep it in shape and well catered to always (if she keeps separate funds for purchasing quality products, quality clothes and consumables (expensive yet effective shampoos, sunscreen, sunglasses, etc.)
Someone who would prefer walking 5 miles if they consider the rickshaw fare high but won't hold back when it comes to taking care of their body. Who understands The practical side of "Allah ne diyya hai toh Nazar aana chahiyye". Nazar aane me 'self-care' ho... Brand conscious ban kr labels ki dukaan ikathi krnaa nhin!!
This also includes eating consciously (e.g., 2 Oranges/Apples >>> STING any day of the year), physical workouts (at least body weight exercises) no matter how much busy.
I wrote this long paragraph because I have trained all my life to be like this. I believe you can manage your expenses by wearing 7 year old clothes which fit perfectly or well-hunted clothes and shoes from the thrift store WHILE simultaneously purchasing a 10,000 PKR perfume. Nothing wrong with that.
If Allah has given you, no Bukhl, this is Zeenat-al-Hayaat Ad Dunyaa
But always remember Allah has given you ears, eyes and a heart for becoming wise too. Not everything demands a compromise. And not every scenario asks you to loudly become "go with the flow".. "I love shopping" or "I'm just a girl"

2- Someone who stays as far away from unhygienic habits as possible (very clear on what's Najaasat and how to effectively keep yourself and others around you "Paak" from it AND its effects.) it goes without saying but I feel like iterating it once: "You can't wash undies and headcloth together in a run, even if you have headache and can't start a new wash run"
I feel no hesitation in saying that this includes monitoring what you eat, your control on letting it out and your walking habits.
Someone who knows how to practically live (الطہور شطر الایمان)

3- Someone who leaves the conversation when it comes to lewd talk even if it's their respected elders, parents, boss, colleagues and even friends. Life is not for "Laghw"

4- Someone who will stand with me or whoever's on the side of the oppressed when it comes to REFUSING any societal or cultural oppression. I promise, my regard and respect for my wife will Multiply 100x if she doesn't hesitate in joining me against any kind of "na-insaafi" with a wise approach. EVEN WHEN SHE FEELS IT WILL CHANGE WHAT PEOPLE THINK OF HER (this might involve risking losing all the self-alloted titles we usually write in our intro's/Bio's)
Who won't discriminate which side of the family the injustice is coming from, she proudly stands and takes the side of the truth instead of getting emotional, pseudo-wise or nostalgic.
میں "لوگ کیا کہیں گے" اور "ایسے نہیں چلتا" کی آڑ میں ظلم سہنے والے کو بھی ظالم سمجھتا ہوں

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