I am being honest with you and I am the type tha at feel shy to ask m from a woman or anyone else. My parents raised me and taught me how to be independent so I never or hardly ask for something, but when I ask then I am really in need of that thing . All I want is someone to be my soul mate and to spend the rest of my life with thats why I put my profile on the dating site because i do not like meeting people at the bars or clubs.