Assalamu Alaikum everyone, 🌸

At this rate, I’m convinced none of us are getting married because the marriage side of Muzz is just broken and very dissappointing lol

Since I haven’t managed to get myself married yet, I figured I might as well try getting one of you married instead. 😋🌸

Inspired by the beautiful initiative that the Indian community has been running on Jamaa (may Allah bless everyone involved 🤍), I wanted to run a little manual matchmaking experiment for the Bangladeshi community living abroad 🤭😇

After speaking to countless sisters, listening to their experiences, complaints, frustrations, and observations, I started noticing recurring patterns. So I’ve put together a highly specific matchmaking system to hopefully cut through some of the chaos. If this goes well, I’d be happy to do it again in the coming weeks, in shaa Allah.

✨ Proudly powered by PN (yes, it’s literally just me lol).✨(so be patient 😋)

For now, this post is specifically for the Bangladeshi diaspora: Bangladeshis living outside Bangladesh who are seeking someone who is also based abroad. [later in the weeks I’ll think of more ways to include everyone]

Before we begin, here are the ground rules:

🌿 1. Strictly or Actively Practicing Muslims Only

This space is for brothers and sisters who are actively striving in their Deen. That means praying, eating halal, and no smoking, vaping, or drinking. If that doesn’t align with your lifestyle, please respectfully sit this one out.

🌿 2. Attraction Matters

Physical attraction is important and pretending otherwise helps nobody.

Please either:
• Link your Muzz profile, or
• Have a clear display picture on your Jamaa profile. So I have some Idea to who I am matching to whom.

For sisters who observe hijab or niqab, your modesty is fully respected. I will take extra care to match you with brothers who genuinely value and appreciate that commitment.

🌿 3. Provider Mindset Required

This space is for brothers who genuinely embrace the role of provider.

No 50/50 debates.
No “joint accounts”
No “ if she wants to contribute I'll appreciate it.”

Know where you stand before entering.

🌿 4. Serious Timelines Only

The goal is marriage, not endless talking stages

If you’re planning to marry in 1–2 years, this probably isn’t the right fit.

We’re looking for people who are comfortable involving families within approximately 6–8weeks if things are progressing positively. If this scares you, you know the drill.

🌿 5. Maturity & Respect

If you’re putting yourself forward, I’m assuming you’re genuinely ready for marriage and its responsibilities, including financial stability and emotional maturity.

Also looking at men who respect a woman’s choices:

• If she has career ambitions, support her.
• If she wishes to stay home, cherish her.
• If you believe one makes her more valuable than the other, then.. skip this post. 🤷‍♀️

🌠 MATCHMAKING TEMPLATE 🌠

Copy, paste, and complete the template below in the comments.

Feel free to tag a Bangladeshi friend who’s looking, but no pressure.

Your Username:

Profile Status:
(Clear DP on Jamaa / or Muzz Link ) if a link is there then it’s easier to match on my end.

Age & Preferred Age Range:
(e.g. 27 | Looking for 27–30)

Height & Preferred Height:
(e.g. 5’5” | Looking for 5’9+”)

Education:
(e.g. BSc Computer Science, Masters in …)

Profession:
(e.g. Teacher, Software Engineer, Dentist .. specify exactly what you do for a living if the title is not clear)

Regional Roots / Dialect:
(Sylheti, Chittagonian, Shuddho Bangla, etc.)

Grew Up In:
(e.g. raised in Dubai, UK-raised, Canada-raised)

Current Location & Relocation Preferences:
(e.g. Australia | Open to UK/USA relocation)

Passport / immigration Status:
(e.g. British Citizen, Canadian Citizen, PR Holder, TR Holder, UAE Resident)

Transparency matters. I’ll be prioritising matches where there is clear, sincere marriage intent and where immigration factors do not appear to be the main motivation, as I have unfortunately come across a lot of cases like this before.

Marital Status & Children:
(e.g. Never Married | No Children)
(e.g. Divorced | 1 Child) etc

My Top 3 Green Flags:
1.
2.
3.

Top 3 Green Flags I’m Looking For:
1.
2.
3.

Dealbreakers (Maximum 2):
1.
2.

🌠 HOW THIS WILL WORK 🌠

I will review profiles and manually match people based on what I genuinely believe has long-term compatibility potential.

Because the focus is quality rather than quantity, not everyone will receive a match, and that’s completely okay. I’d rather protect your time than force unsuitable introductions.

Once matches are announced:

• The brother must make the first move and give Salaam. (Dw I’ll provide ice breakers)
• Initial conversation happens publicly in the comments.
• Consider the community the collective wali for your match. 😌

•Each match is expected to have a minimum of 5 meaningful exchanges (not just greetings) before either party decides to continue or close the interaction.

This is to ensure genuine compatibility is explored beyond first impressions.

If it does not feel like a match, either person may send a 🌻 sunflower as a polite closure signal. This means “thank you, I do not feel compatibility” and ends the interaction respectfully.
Or You give a 🗝️= I’m open to continuing

• Others in the comments are welcome to like ♥️ the conversation as a form of encouragement if you see them having potential.

• If the interaction is respectful and promising, you can move to DMs.

Please keep everything respectful, sincere, and kind.

Ps. If you are a brother and you like a sisters bio in the comments like it so I know who you might be interested in. And if you are a sister - just privately msg me if you like a specific brother . I’ll work around it. Hehe 🤭♥️😋

Bismillah.

Let’s see if we can get at least one wedding out of this. 🍿💌

I would also like some kachchi sent to me if this works out 🥰