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@sherazi_5
"Let's be honest for a moment. Scrolling through profiles here lately feels exhausting, and it highlights a major, uncomfortable truth about our modern matchmaking culture.
Whenever the topic of marriage comes up, we constantly hear that 'a man must be the provider.' But that word has been completely distorted. Many act as though a provider is an on-demand luxury vendor—someone who should instantly hand over every high-end lifestyle choice, regardless of whether a hard-working man has actually reached that financial standing yet. They expect a fully 'well-settled' package from day one, treating a partner more like an ATM or a life-upgrade machine than an equal companion.
Because of these soaring, unrealistic expectations, heavily fueled by social media, the consequences are right in front of us: a majority of people are now crossing their 30s with heavily delayed marriages, yet their rigid, demanding mindsets remain entirely unchanged. When an honest, hardworking man earning through halal means cannot meet these impossible standards, the doors to wrongdoing and hardship sadly become much easier in our society. Marriage is meant to be a partnership of mutual growth and support, not an unrealistic financial shortcut."
@hadiabbas34980655
Hiii everyone 👋🏻
@Jabril796396
Any African American Shias?
@ZameerHassan
Any Sagittarius girl
@ZameerHassan
Any Sagittarius girl
@ali73509
Hi. Hope you all doing great.
May the blessings of Almightly Allah be upon all of us in This holy month when our beloved last Prophet was sent for our teachings and corrections.
@3ashiqo-7aidrah
@akcrash2294757
Dear Shia girls
Don't brag about your open-mindedness before first knowing the limits of your Shia Faith's limits about your open-mindedness.
Also Don't brag about it before first knowing the limits of your future husband's limits since you are all looking for a masculine man
It makes you look ridiculously silly
@Snbokhari
Sometimes the people who seems to be always there to help you are the same people who bring problems in your life.
I am getting lots of messages and proposals from non Muslim boys too, i am so surprised to see my own shia community boys not serious always disappoint me , but other non Muslim are very serious and loyal about marriage, no wonder why girls are preferring them. I might also do the same as planning to get married this year.