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Ya Allah thank you for everything, I may have less but I have you..
Marriage is less about finding someone to live with and more about finding someone you can build a life with.
Hi everyone
Hello Jamaa friends,
Is there anyone here living in Karachi and working remotely or as a freelancer?
If you’re a man, please reply to this post.
If you’re a woman and have a partner who works remotely or as a freelancer, could you please send me a DM?
Thank you so much 🙏🏻
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Unpopular opinion: attraction matters, and pretending it doesn’t - helps no one.
I don’t know if anyone else feels this way, but I genuinely struggle with the traditional rishta process.
I can’t decide whether I like someone from a biodata alone, and I can’t force attraction just because a CV looks impressive. I’m not hiring the boy. I’m choosing a life partner. This is the person I’ll wake up next to, spend my life with, and see first thing every morning for years to come.
Attraction matters it’s like when i see a picture i know that this is person is who i wanna stand next to for the rest of my life. For me surat - more importantly the personality that influences the surat comes first then i take it forward to test someone’s seerat to see if we really do have a connection. Yet in our culture, it often feels like only women’s looks are expected to matter.
Another thing I’ve noticed is that many men today don’t seem to put much effort into presenting themselves. Maybe it’s just what I see on rishta apps or WhatsApp biodatas, but compared to our parents’ generation, where men often dressed well and took pride in their appearance, it feels different.
Wealth doesn’t impress me, intellect and personality do. While many people prioritize financial status or influential backgrounds, I feel that today a lot of men assume money is the main thing that matters.
Before anyone says “looks aren’t everything”, I agree. Beauty and attraction are not the same thing. Women are constantly told to work on their appearance, fitness, grooming, skincare, style, and presentation alongside a good career which again is very important. Yet when I scroll through rishta apps, I often wonder why the same standard isn’t expected from men.
Looks aren’t everything, but effort is attractive. And effort shows. Curious if other women feel the same way, or if it’s just me?
Dear girls everyone is entitled to their own preferences, and having them isn’t an attack on you. Holding a preference doesn't mean I'm demanding you alter yourself to fit in. It just means we aren't a match. Compatibility is a two-way street. Instead of posting negative content about men who are honest about what they want, it would be much healthier to accept that we aren't compatible and move on.
Please stop posting negative generalizations about guys simply because they have standards.