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The 30s

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Navigating life in your 30s? Come connect and grow with others on the same path, from careers to relationships to identity 💬

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Tayo Soyinka

@Tee_why

16 days ago

Women who constantly whine that men only want them for their bodies are inadvertently telling on themselves.

You mean no man has ever desired you for who you innately are, not even once?

Then it's more of a skill issue on your part, and less about the men.

Their male counterparts are those men who think women are only interested in them for money.

Both groups need to work on themselves - having a likeable personality so the opposite *** can desire you as a soul, and not just as a *** or success object.

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Silent Words

@silentwords

17 days ago

Be strong not to prove your power but to protect the people you love.

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Sofia

@mariam478283

17 days ago

Asalamalikom well looking for a partner form Islamabad or Lahore 🥰

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Dee

@Dee-90

17 days ago

Being in your 30s:

Being in your 30s is a beautiful mix of knowing who you are and still figuring things out. It's realising peace matters more than proving a point, that real friendships are few but golden, and that growth often looks like setting boundaries, saying no, healed their inner child and choosing yourself-quietly, confidently. She's not lost, she's just evolving, and that's more powerful than ever.

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Sanya

@Saniyaay

17 days ago

The Prophet (ﷺ) warned against disclosing sins that Allah has kept hidden, noting that those who expose their own concealed sins remove the screening protection of Allah, as detailed in [Sahih al-Bukhari 6069] and [Sahih Muslim 2990]
O you who have believed, avoid much [negative] assumption. Indeed, some assumption is sin. And do not spy..."
— Surah Al-Hujurat 49:12
Application to Marriage: Islamic jurists leverage this verse to affirm that a husband or suitor is strictly forbidden from "spying" or interrogating a partner about their past.
Yet, we have people here who do so in the name of honesty..
Demi -Gods trying to pry into what even Allah has concealed and they call themselves Muslims 🤦🏻‍♀️
And before you' all start a Trollers MARD MARCH against me.. let me quote
Islam teaches that true repentance completely absolves the past, with the Prophet (ﷺ) stating that the one who repents from sin is like one without sin. Because a repented sin is spiritually erased before Allah, it is not the rightful business of a spouse to investigate or demand its revelation.
And again this implies to BOTH men and Women..

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Syed Taha

@smt1988

17 days ago

❤️ Today's Question for Everyone!

What makes a woman aged 30–40 feel truly impressed by someone? 😊

👩 Ladies: What little things or qualities in a man win your heart?

👨 Gentlemen: What would you do to make a woman feel special and appreciated?

Keep it short and sweet! ❤️ No long stories—just share the first thought that comes to your mind.

Let's hear both sides with honesty and a little love! 💬✨

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Salahuddin Muhammad

@Salahuddin_Muhammad

17 days ago

Hello everyone

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Angie Ayu

@Angieayu

17 days ago

Reactivated my account after more than a year, and i’m completely lost. Muzz is so different from the last time i check🙂

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Uzair

@Uzairkhan450

17 days ago

Asalam u alikum guys

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