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Navigating life in your 30s? Come connect and grow with others on the same path, from careers to relationships to identity 💬

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ADAM HUSAIN

@adamxo

9 days ago

I told her "how are you doing" and she answered "i'm not doing anything" - i told her that i said "how are u doing not what are you doing" (so she unmatched )😂😅

Seriously what's wrong with these people !?

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Faisal Mehmood

@faisalandyou

9 days ago

Would you marry someone who has everything you prayed for, but you never feel completely understood by them? Or is being understood just as important as being loved?

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kes

@kes79

9 days ago

🚨😂 I SWEAR DOWN, SOME PEOPLE ON SOCIAL MEDIA NEED TO BE STUDIED IN A LAB. BECAUSE WHAT JUST HAPPENED IN MY DMs IS ACTUALLY INSANE. 💀😭

A woman, about 5 years older than me, with FIVE kids, messages me saying she’s looking to get married. Fair enough, everyone’s entitled to look for love. ❤️

BUT WITHIN NO TIME, she’s already coming at me aggressively with, “If you don’t like the fact I’ve got five children, don’t message me, thanks.” 😭😭😂

LOVE… I DON’T EVEN KNOW YOU?! 💀💀 WHO SAID I WAS APPLYING TO BE YOUR HUSBAND? I HAVEN’T EVEN GOT PAST HELLO AND I’M ALREADY BEING DEFENDED AGAINST IN COURT. 😭😂😂

AND THEN THE PLOT TWISTS EVEN HARDER… 🤣

She starts sending me pictures of herself from YEARS AGO, trying to pass them off as current. 😭💀

SO LET ME GET THIS STRAIGHT… WE’RE DISCUSSING MARRIAGE BEFORE WE’VE EVEN MET, I’M GETTING A LECTURE ABOUT FIVE CHILDREN I NEVER QUESTIONED, AND NOW I’M APPARENTLY SPEAKING TO A HISTORICAL VERSION OF YOU?! 😂😂😂

I CAME ON SOCIAL MEDIA, NOT TO GET FAST-TRACKED INTO MARRIAGE, A FAMILY OF SEVEN AND A FULL-SCALE CATFISH INVESTIGATION ALL IN ONE AFTERNOON. 💀😭🤣

HONESTLY, PEOPLE, IT’S A SCARY WORLD OUT HERE. You can’t even open your messages without feeling like you need a solicitor, a detective and a lie detector. 😂😂😂

THE WAY SOME PEOPLE ARE READY TO GET MARRIED BEFORE THEY’VE EVEN ESTABLISHED WHETHER YOU’RE BOTH REAL IS ABSOLUTELY SENDING ME. 😭💀😂

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Nikki

@nikkinikk

9 days ago

Salaam.. I'm Nikk. I'm here for Many things even if possibilities might small. But I believe "No Effort Wasted". I'm here to get Friends, Platonic dates, Serious Relationship, Offer my Support service to support my Parents & Cats & daily survival, & use Any Ways to find my Biological Relatives/Family/Parents.

I come from a "Different World" that you might rarely find. I value honesty & respect despite differences.
We can disagree or dislike anything, doesn't mean we have to hate the individuals. But Hate, Love, etc., are part of Human's Nature & Right.
Differences could be a Beautiful thing if we or you see it from different angles, without the need to sugarcoat anything or anyone.

We feel, we think, we learn, and we observe.

I learn Survival, I observe Human, from this "Different World". That a Small Little thing for you, could mean a Big Thing for me.

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Jaifal Faisel

@Jaifal

9 days ago

Genuine question for people on Jamma and Muzz. 😅

Why do people match with someone and then never even start a conversation? And sometimes, even when a conversation starts, it feels like nobody really knows what they’re looking for.

I understand that choosing a life partner is a big decision, and it’s okay to take your time. But wouldn’t things be easier if we were just a little more honest and clear with each other?

I'm genuinely curious, especially from a woman's perspective — what usually makes you hesitate after matching with someone? Is it trust, confusion, lack of interest, or something else?

No judgment, just trying to understand. 🙂

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Silent Words

@silentwords

10 days ago

Love expressed too late often turns into regret.

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Gökhan

@Gkhan91831698

10 days ago

Love is like a seed that blooms when nurtured. But love cannot survive without its roots: passion and respect. Without them, you cannot find true life, no matter how beautiful the exterior."

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Anonymous

10 days ago

Salam everyone, I am in this transition ofnlife where I feel like I shouldn’t get married from this point of life as I literally have no exposure with women both intimately or even as a friends I never got a chance to build one even though from high school till they did like to talk to me but never felt any sort of of relatability so here I’m in the final stage of getting married while being considered as single but about to get older in 3/4 years I’m losing faith in marriages as a lot of separation and div getting common these days for petty reason or just for the pr benfit I am not judging anyone but it’s mostly women who are demanding way too much for getting mrried like a person has to have a house under his lease and job should be future secure (Which is totally unstable due to the market condition these days) not talking about doctors or engineers field even blue collar jobs are getting less in demand I have a bachelors in marketing from Pakistan but nothing works for men been looking for like 2-3 months, the issue is a lot of girls especially the under 30s like what supplanting

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Sara El

@uwolfhn

10 days ago

Why when ever I'm in different country I see different kind of post 📫
That's show how different ppl mindset is

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Abdul

@Abdul000013

10 days ago

I'm a lawyer. How may I help you?

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