Psychology & Neurodiversity

Good morning ! 😀
Let's play a game called...
"It's more common than what you think"

We all have secrets, we all have assumptions, and there are things happening behind closed doors that people would rather pretend don’t exist.

So, here’s how the game works...
It’s simple... drop a comment revealing something you believe is far more common than most people realise.

Something people whisper about privately but rarely admit publicly.
No names, no judgement, no essays.… just honesty.

Let me kick things off...
Muslim men who pay for s33x is far more common than many people would like to believe.

Your turn...?

I still don’t understand those who still use tinder to find love

Men are conditioned to think household work, chores and emotional labour are women’s jobs, especially after they get married or enter a serious relationship.

No matter how good of a man you think he is, or how much he was doing things independently when he was single,

Men think it’s the woman’s job to take care of them in the household.

Unpopular opinion: Not everyone you love is good for your peace. Agree or disagree?

Think before you speak, because once words are spoken, regret cannot undo them. Humans have spent centuries trying to master the art of controlling their words, emotions, and impulses. Some learn, some fail, and some never even realize what they need to control ‼️

What makes a women difficult to marry ?

Harmonic resonance
When you emit a wave at a particular frequency, you don’t create something out of nothing... instead, you cause objects with matching physical properties to vibrate in response to that frequency.

Girl, marry a man who learns how to comfort you instead of getting offended by your sadness.

Bit of a rant.
Idk the phycology behind this, so I'm interested to know.

I hate small talk.
It's value-less (if that's a word) conversation, but disguised with beautiful questions.
(Eg: how are you, hows your day, what did you do over the weekend, etc)

I've always felt uncomfortable when doing small talk. I'd rather have someone be straight to the point.
No im not depressed or very serious. I just value my time. Especially when I'm not in my comfort zone (I'm an introvert, so thats quite often)

Now what intrigued me is:

• -why am I like this?
• -If we are such social creatures then why isn't everyone like this?
• -Is there any psychological reason for it?

A woman I used to work with, now in her mid-40s, recently made the personal decision to stop wearing her hijab. Whatever her reasons, that’s entirely her choice.

Interestingly, now, she looks noticeably younger, almost as though she’s had a glow up and taken ten years off her appearance.

It got me wondering...
Does wearing a hijab influence how we perceive a woman’s age ?

If you wear one then do you think it makes you look younger or older, or is it simply a matter of perception ?