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Shadi

@Shadi

9 days ago

If you’re a man looking for marriage on here with filtered pics on your profile dare I say, you should be looking to marry another man

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Ibrahim

@Ibrahim54434366

9 days ago

Hello

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Arbab Noman

@Arbab97240193

10 days ago

Hy 💙✨

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Samir El madi

@samir523815

10 days ago

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Shahy Amer

@Shahy6102

10 days ago

Honestly, I take pride in being Gen Z & I genuinely don’t understand why ppl criticize our generation when it comes to marriage !!

I actually think Gen Z men & women r becoming more intentional about choosing their life partners , We have clear standards, multiple criteria & a much better understanding that marriage is about WAY MORE than just finding someone who can afford to run a household !

We care about compatibility, emotional intelligence, communication, values, lifestyle, ambition, boundaries, attraction, financial responsibility, family dynamics & how someone handles conflict ( We ask questions, We observe behaviors , We pay attention to the little things) because we understand that those little things eventually become the BIG things when u live with someone for the rest of ur life.

Meanwhile, a lot of our parents’ & grandparents’ generation approached marriage with a much simpler checklist:
Does he have a job?
Can he afford a home?
Is she acceptable looking?
Is he a decent person?
Great ! So Get married & Figure the rest out later 🤷🏻‍♀️

& that’s exactly where the problem often starts.
Compatibility gets overlooked , Emotional needs get dismissed , Personality differences get minimized , Controlling behavior gets normalized , Lack of communication becomes ( that’s just how men are ) Emotional neglect becomes (marriage takes sacrifice) & ppl spend years trying to survive relationships they never should have entered in the first place.

Of course, there were successful, loving marriages in previous generations & there r shallow, unrealistic people in ours.
Gen Z isn’t perfect & having a long list of standards doesn’t automatically make someone mature.

But at least we’re questioning things that previous generations were often taught to accept without questioning.
We’re learning that having a job doesn’t automatically make someone a good husband. Being beautiful doesn’t automatically make someone a good wife.
Providing financially doesn’t excuse emotional immaturity & being a good person on paper doesn’t necessarily mean you’re compatible with someone.

Marriage isn't just about finding someone who can keep a roof over your head but It's about finding someone whose presence makes that home a place you actually WANT to live in.
& personally, I'd rather be single while looking for someone who genuinely fits my life than spend decades trying to convince myself that the bare minimum is enough.

Gen Z isn't necessarily asking for too much. We're just less willing to accept a lifetime commitment based on a checklist that ignores the actual human being we're marrying

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Mimi

@Mimi61474763

10 days ago

Hello

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Ahmed Toure

@Amynofficial

10 days ago

Assalamu alaikum. I'm from West Africa.

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Anna

@albial96

10 days ago

Yeah,, I can handle myself....😊

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Anas

@Jax1

10 days ago

Thinking of my wife🥰🤍

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Cemre

@Cemre1629499

10 days ago

Warm Greetings from Istanbul to the Arab World… 🌿

Assalamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.

Dear brothers and sisters,

Although we may come from different countries and cultures, we share a beautiful heritage of faith, knowledge, and civilization.

I have a deep appreciation for the Arabic language, the language of the Holy Qur'an, and its remarkable legacy of literature, philosophy, and scholarship.

I believe that meaningful conversations and the exchange of knowledge build some of the most beautiful bridges between people.

I would be delighted to learn more about your culture, intellectual traditions, and literary heritage.

May I ask: Which Arab scholar, thinker, poet, or book has had the greatest influence on your life?

With warm greetings and sincere respect from Istanbul… 🌷

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