Mental health

Dear Women,

In the fight against Patriarchy, You'll often have to fight more brainwashed women than men.

Anyone struggling with trapped anxiety, anger , emotions , try this ..

https://youtu.be/QoB9wpuO688?si=8VcU3_MsaN2PafLv

I've spent years studying and understanding Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. This is hands down my all time favourite lecture on the topic, (although there's been many others of profound benefit). Absolutely beautiful woman full of compassion, care, empathy, resilience and tenacity. If you're vulnerable at the moment please do watch with caution as there's some very disturbing topics covered.
https://youtu.be/otxAuHG9hKo

focus on yourself, fix your sleep, eat well, fix your circle, accept the past, talk less, get your mind right, avoid drama, don’t chase and work harder. little by little, you’ll become your own favorite place to be.

I have This Problem 😞

Patience is not just waiting; it is keeping a good attitude and a clean tongue while you wait.🍀💯

Work

Oh Allah bless me in what You grant me

I’m looking for a serious relationship 🥰💕

Assalam alaikum,
I am feeing so helpless right now and I don't have anybody to listen to me so I am letting it out here.
It feels like my life is falling apart. I was supposed to get married next month but my wedding was called off for some reason. I don't have a job right now. I used to work part time but i lost that job as well. I have no motivation left to do anything in life. I have applied to multiple jobs but haven't heard back from any of those. I am also in my late 20s so the pressure to get married is building up more than ever. I can't seem to find a good suitor. The ones that I like don't seem to like me and those who like me, i can't seem to move ahead with them. I haven't moved on from my ex fiance and I find myself comparing every new guy to him. I don't do it intentionally but it happens subconsciously. I have genuinely tried moving forward with some of the proposals but none of them materialized. At this point, it feels like I am completely useless as though I am living without a purpose. I have become of source of worry for my parents. I am not earning, I am not doing anything productive and I can't seem to get married. I am also completely heartbroken. It feels like everything has piled up all at once. At times I wonder, what's the point of living like this ? I am living a life no better than that of animals.
I pray, do dhikr, recite duas and started praying tahajjud but nothing seems to be changing at this point. What am I supposed to do now ? If only I could land a job, i wouldn't feel this helpless. Or I could get married so my parents wouldn't have to worry about me.

I am sorry for ranting so much but that's the only way for me to let it out. Thank you taking the time to read through all of this.