Mental health

Assalamualaikum.

Allah is my witness, I am speaking from my heart and I am not lying. I joined Muzz with a sincere intention. I was not here to play games, pass time, or talk to hundreds of people. I came here with one simple hope: maybe Allah would help me find one loyal woman who would understand me, respect me, and accept me sincerely, so that I could marry her according to the Sunnah of my beloved Prophet ﷺ. That was my only intention.

But what I experienced here has honestly broken my heart. I came here looking for loyalty, but instead I learned how quickly people can change when they think they might find someone “better.” Sometimes you give someone your time, your trust, your feelings, and your sincerity, only to realize that you were never their first choice. You were just another option while they were still searching.

I honestly regret creating my Muzz account. I wish I had known before joining what I would experience here. I came with a clean heart, believing that maybe I would meet someone with the same intentions as me. Instead, I have seen enough to make me realize that not everyone who talks about marriage is actually ready for commitment, and not everyone who says “I’m serious” is telling the truth.

So, from the bottom of my heart, I want to tell everyone here: please protect your heart and don’t waste your precious time. If you meet someone and talk for one or two days, don't immediately believe that they are loyal to you or that they have chosen you. They might be saying the same things to several other people at the same time, while secretly waiting to see if someone “better” comes along.

And please remember something: behind every profile is a real human being with real feelings. You don't know how much someone may have already suffered in their life. You don't know how much courage it took for them to trust you. So please don't give someone hope, make them emotionally attached to you, and then throw them away when another option appears.

If you genuinely want a peaceful marriage, I believe it is better to look for someone who genuinely fears Allah. A person with taqwa will understand the meaning of loyalty, respect, responsibility, and commitment. They will respect you, your feelings, your parents, and your family. They won't treat marriage like shopping for the best available option.

I am not saying that every person on Muzz is bad. There may be sincere and good people here too. But my own experience has been extremely painful, and I don't want anyone else to learn the same lesson after getting hurt.

I came here hoping to find one person to build a life with, not hundreds of people to choose from. I wanted a wife, not a list of options. I wanted loyalty, not competition. I wanted a sincere relationship for the sake of Allah, not a temporary conversation until someone “better” appeared.

May Allah heal every heart that has been hurt by someone who wasn't sincere. May Allah protect us from people who play with other people's emotions, and may Allah bless every sincere person with a spouse who values them, respects them, and never makes them feel like they were merely an option.

And may Allah give us someone who chooses us sincerely, stays with us sincerely, and loves us for the sake of Allah. Ameen. 🤲❤️

I choose to play stupid but trust me, i know everything you think i don't. ♐️

Depression because of something

I want someone only one to talk right now . . . Im feeling really empty

No one talks about how hard it is to open up to someone about being sad for no reason. how hard it is to explain to your friends & family that you have a heavy feeling in your chest for no reason...#staystrong #nevergiveup #don'tjudgeme 💫🤲✨️💪💰🌮🤑🥂🎅🤦‍♂️

Does anyone know of any online therapy group ?

Which attachment style do u have and what attachment style do u attract?

Dose anyone here for talk?

Don't forget to take care of yourself, you need yourself more than anyone else .

“There’s a difference between finding someone attractive and feeling drawn to their soul. I’m looking for the second.”