Malays

I am looking for lifetime partner

Looking to find my other Malay half
Age 37
Sunni
Divorced

Cape Town home of Cape Malay cultures and traditions

Hi

Hi

Salam all,

I’d love to get your thoughts on a book I wrote. I may be the first Malaysian American Muslim Author for self help books.

https://a.co/d/0doy2E7S

Born in Kuala Lumpur. Built my life in America and live in Dallas, TX.

I’ve release of my first book, Calibration Intelligence — The Intelligence of Knowing What the Moment Requires.

My journey through petroleum engineering, entrepreneurship, relationships, and personal growth taught me that effort alone isn’t enough. We need the judgment to recognize when to push, when to pause, and when to change direction.

That is the idea at the heart of Calibration Intelligence.

This book brings together lessons I’ve lived, mistakes I’ve learned from, and a framework I hope helps others make more intentional choices.

My roots shaped my perspective. My experiences shaped these pages. And now, I get to share them with you.

— Zhariff Zabidi

#CalibrationIntelligence #ZhariffZabidi #MalaysianAmerican #MuslimAuthor #DebutAuthor #IntentionalLiving #PersonalGrowth

What's a green flag that matters more than looks?

I matched with a guy whose profile name was “nescafe” on this app.

We chatted non-stop for three days, from 22/10 to 25/10. I know it might sound silly to some people, since it was only three/four days, but I genuinely enjoyed our conversations.

He told me that we had chemistry, that we understood each other, and everything seemed to be going well. Then, out of nowhere, he unmatched me without saying anything.

I’m not here to beg for anyone to stay. I just wish I knew what happened or what changed so suddenly. If the connection wasn’t what he thought it was, I would have appreciated some honesty rather than being left wondering.

So, if you’re the guy behind the profile “nescafe,” or if you happen to know him, please leave a comment or help me understand what happened.

I’m not looking for drama. I just want some closure. 🥹