Ramadan

Would you choose a marriage with less excitement but more peace, or a marriage with intense love but constant emotional ups and downs?

DEAR SISTERS ⚠️

Please don't let the attention of men make you forget the pleasure of Allah.

A man may look at your picture and say:

“You're so hot.”
“You're ****.”
“You're beautiful.”
“Your body is perfect.”
“You look amazing.”
“I can't stop looking at you.”

And perhaps for a moment, you feel beautiful.

You feel noticed.

You feel admired.

You feel like you've accomplished something.

But sister…

Is the attention of men worth risking your relationship with Allah?

Those compliments will not follow you into your grave.

Those likes won't defend you on the Day of Judgment.

Those followers won't stand between you and accountability.

And that man who was praising your beauty today cannot save you from Allah tomorrow.

☝️ Allah says:

“And do not display yourselves as was the display of the former times of ignorance.”

📖📚 Qur'an 33:33📖📚

☝️ And Allah says:☝️

“O children of Adam, We have sent down to you clothing to cover your private parts and as adornment. But the clothing of righteousness—that is best.”

📖📚 Qur'an 7:26📖📚

Your beauty is a blessing.

Your body is an amanah.

Your ʿawrah is not content for strangers to consume.

So don't let social media convince you that exposing more means becoming more valuable.

You don't need the whole world to admire you.

You need Allah to be pleased with you.

And remember the reality of the Hereafter:

Jahannam is real.

Its punishment is real.

The Day of Judgment is real.

So when the temptation comes to post something revealing, pause and ask yourself:

“Would I be comfortable meeting Allah with this?”

If the answer frightens you, delete it.

Cover yourself.

Repent.

Come back to Allah.

And don't despair—Allah's door of repentance is still open.

Sister, your worth was never measured by how many men find you attractive.

Protect your ʿawrah.
Protect your haya’.
Protect your heart.
Protect your akhirah.

May Allah grant our sisters haya’, dignity, righteousness and sincere tawbah, and protect all of us from the Fire.

Fear Jahannam. 🔥

Seek Jannah. 🤲🏽

Allah knows best.

ONE DAY, YOU WILL ENTER THE GRAVE. ⚠️

Think about it.

One day, you will leave everything behind.

Your phone.
Your money.
Your clothes.
Your house.
Your car.
Your followers.
Your popularity.
Your relationships.
Your entertainment.
Your worldly luxuries.

Everything.

And you will enter the grave with nothing except what you sent ahead.

The sins you thought were small:

• Kissing someone you were not married to.
• Holding hands with a non-maḥram.
• Hugging and cuddling before marriage.
• Looking at what Allah prohibited.
• Watching pornography or sexually explicit content.
• Listening to what you know you should have avoided.
• Secret sins you thought nobody knew about.
• Moments you thought would never matter.

They mattered.

☝️☝️ Allah says:☝️☝️

“So whoever does an atom’s weight of good will see it, and whoever does an atom’s weight of evil will see it.”

📖📚 Qur'an 99:7–8📖📚

One day, the dunya will feel like something you once dreamed.

The pleasures will be gone.

The opportunities will be gone.

And the time you thought you had left will be gone.

Then comes the Day when you stand before Allah.

No more excuses.
No more hiding.
No more deleting the evidence.
No more saying, “I'll repent tomorrow.”

So think while you still have time.

You can repent today.

You can stop today.

You can delete the haram today.

You can return to Allah today.

Don't say:

“I'll enjoy myself now and repent later.”

You don't know whether “later” will ever come.

The grave is not the place to begin repentance.

This life is.

So fear Allah while you still have the opportunity to change.

Do not wait until your deeds are presented before you to wish you had lived differently.

May Allah forgive our past sins, protect us from secret and open sins, make the grave a place of peace for us, and allow us to meet Him with sincere repentance and righteous deeds.

Āmīn. 🤲🏽

Repent while the door is still open. ⚠️

We tend to ignore so many lessons from the deaths around us.

Someone we knew was alive yesterday.

Today, they are beneath the earth.

We attend the janāzah.

We watch the burial.

We hear the duʿāʾ.

We say, “May Allah forgive him.”

We return home…

…and somehow continue living as though death is something that happens to other people.

But every funeral is a reminder.

Every grave is a reminder.

Every person who leaves this dunya is silently telling those who remain:

“Your turn is coming too.”

The question is not whether we will die.

The question is:

What will we have prepared for that day?

The sins we keep postponing repentance from.

The ṣalāh we keep delaying.

The Qur’an we keep neglecting.

The ظلم we refuse to correct.

The apologies we keep postponing.

The debts we ignore.

The rights of people we violate.

The good deeds we keep saying, “One day I will start.”

What if that “one day” never comes?

Allah says:

«“Every soul will taste death.”
— Qur’an 3:185»

Death doesn't ask whether you're ready.

It doesn't wait until your plans are finished.

It doesn't wait until you've become old.

It doesn't wait until you've made tawbah.

So when you hear that someone has died, don't only say:

“May Allah grant them Jannah.”

Also ask yourself:

“If I were in that grave tonight, what would I wish I had changed?”

Then change it while you still can.

Pray while you still have the ability to pray.

Repent while the door of tawbah is still open.

Give charity while you still possess wealth.

Seek forgiveness while your tongue can still speak.

Return people's rights while you still have the opportunity.

Prepare for Allah before you are carried to Him.

Because one day, people will gather around our janāzah.

And after they bury us, they will walk away.

We will remain behind—not with our clothes, wealth, followers, status, or possessions…

but with our deeds.

May Allah grant us a righteous ending, forgive our sins, make our graves spacious and filled with light, and resurrect us among those whom He is pleased with.

Āmīn.

Allah knows best.

DEAR MUSLIMS,

Don't wait until the next Ramadan before you repent.

Don't wait until the next Ramadan before you start praying properly.

Don't wait until the next Ramadan before you return to Allah.

Don't wait until the next Ramadan before you leave that sin.

Don't wait until the next Ramadan before you open the Qur'an, fix your character, reconcile with someone, or start taking your īmān seriously.

You are not guaranteed to witness the next Ramadan.

You may be making plans for Ramadan while Allah has already written that you will not reach it.

The person who celebrated the last Ramadan with us may not be here for the next one.

And one day, people may be preparing for Ramadan while others are preparing our janāzah.

☝️ Allah says:

“And no soul knows in what land it will die.”

📖📚 Qur’an 31:34📖📚

So don't keep telling yourself:

“I'll change later.”
“I'll repent later.”
“I'll start praying later.”
“I'll become serious about Islam later.”

Later is not promised to you.

Today is an opportunity.

If you've sinned, repent.

If you've become distant from Allah, return.

If you've abandoned the ṣalāh, come back.

If you've wronged someone, make it right.

If you've neglected the Qur'an, open it again.

If your heart has become hard, ask Allah to soften it.

Don't wait for a special month to become the servant of Allah you already know you should be.

Ramadan is a blessing—but your Lord is the Lord of Ramadan and every other day.

May Allah allow us to reach the next Ramadan in good health and stronger īmān, but more importantly, may He make us return to Him before our appointed time arrives.

Repent today. Pray today. Change today.

Tomorrow belongs to Allah.

Allah knows best.

⚠️ WARNING — BEFORE MARRIAGE

If someone is not your husband or wife, do not treat them like one.

Holding hands.
Touching unnecessarily.
Leaning on each other.
Hugging.
Kissing.
Cuddling.
Sitting intimately together.
Putting your arm around them.
Caressing them.
Sleeping together.
Going on romantic dates.
Flirting and speaking sexually.
Private physical affection.
Calling each other “my husband” or “my wife” when there is no nikāḥ.

None of this becomes halal simply because you call the person your “boo,” “bae,” boyfriend, girlfriend, fiancé, or “future spouse.”

A proposal is not a nikāḥ.

Engagement is not marriage.

Having feelings for someone does not make physical intimacy permissible.

And please don't say:

“Everyone is doing it.”

Everyone doing something does not make it halal.

Islam is not measured by what is popular.

If something is prohibited, it remains prohibited even when it becomes normal in society.

☝️☝️ Allah says:

“Do not go near zinā. Indeed, it is ever an immorality and an evil way.”

Qur’an 17:32

Notice the wording: do not even go near it.

Islam teaches us to protect the heart, the eyes, the body, and the boundaries that lead to greater sin.

So if you genuinely love someone, don't prove your love by disobeying Allah with them.

Protect the relationship.

Keep your boundaries.

Involve the family and walī where appropriate.

Make the intention for nikāḥ.

And when Allah makes the marriage halal, you won't need to hide your affection.

Until then:

Fear Allah.

Your friends may laugh.

People may call you old-fashioned.

Someone may tell you, “It's normal.”

Let them say what they want.

You are not living to impress them.
You are living for Allah.

⚠️ Don't normalize haram simply because society has normalized it.

No nikāḥ = no husband/wife privileges.

May Allah protect our eyes, hearts, bodies, and relationships from what displeases Him, and grant us halal love and righteous marriages.

Āmīn.

Allah knows best.

Sometimes, in order to have peace, you just have to remember:

Qiyāmah will come.

Every injustice will be brought to light.
Every hidden ظلم will be known.
Every tear will be known.
Every betrayal will be known.
Every word you swallowed will be known.
Every ظلم that nobody saw will be seen by Allah.

You don't have to fight every battle.

You don't have to answer every accusation.

You don't have to prove your innocence to everyone.

Sometimes, you simply leave the matter with Allah and say:

“Allah is enough for me, and He is the Best Disposer of affairs.”

Because this dunya is not the final court.

The Day of Qiyāmah is coming, and justice will be done.

So forgive when you can.
Walk away when you must.
Keep your heart clean.
Don't repay ظلم with ظلم.

And trust that nothing is hidden from Al-ʿAdl — The Perfectly Just.

May Allah give us patience when we are wronged, wisdom when we are angry, and justice on the Day when every soul will receive exactly what it earned.

Hasbunallāhu wa niʿmal-wakīl. 🤲🏽

heal him Ya Allah, ik he is hurting too. comfort his heart the way you comfort mine.

my last act of everything, is seeking for a forgiveness and forgive too. may Allah ease whatever journey that we were on. may Allah make our path easy. 🖤 حسبنا الله ونعم الوكيل

Oh Allah grant me serenity