Single Parents

Someone laughed when I said, if that man should consider marrying a single mother like me. But I smiled because I was thinking of Khadijah.

Khadijah was a widow. A single mom. Fifteen years older than the Prophet Married twice before. And she was the one who proposed to him. She didn’t shrink herself to be chosen. She stood in her worth and chose him.

If the Prophet himself honored and loved a single mother why should I feel small? We single mothers didn’t choose this path. It is our fate. Can you imagine everything we’ve been through just to become who we are today? We outgrew a thousand versions of ourselves to gain this wisdom. How many heartbreaks did we endure because of the Qadr written for us long before we were born? And we accepted it all.

It’s the same with those who look down on our traditions. Islam never called them haram. Like mahr, if it’s not for you, walk away. But arrogance? "Arrogance is rejecting the truth and looking down on people." Sahih Muslim
Arrogance should have no place in our heart. Ma Allah protect us from it..

Allah permitted divorce even though He dislikes it, because He knows what balance means. What fits one land may not fit another. That is not a flaw. That is wisdom. Respect what Allah has allowed for others.

Jazakumullah khair for reading this.

SEEKING MARRIAGE FOR THE SAKE OF ALLAH

WHO I AM

Version: 27.0 (Ethiopian Edition)

Status: Single. Never Married. No Beta Testing.

Core Processor: 5 daily prayers in the masjid. This is my CPU. Everything runs on it.

Operating System: Qur'an in every salah. Not just reading. Running the program with presence.

Battery Life: Currently running on low battery (no savings, no car, no house). But I am looking for a charger called halal work. InshaAllah coming soon.

Previous Update: Withdrew from university 2nd year due to financial bugs. Not a crash. Just a system restart. Still booting.

Firewall: Guarding my gaze, my tongue, and my heart.

Background Apps Running: Seeking work. Helping family. Fighting nafs. Repenting. Repeat.

Warranty: No perfection guaranteed. But continuous updates promised.

Tech Support: Allah. Available 24/7. No waiting time.

WHAT I SEEK

Must Be Compatible With:

· Muslim. Version 1.0. No patches that change the original code.
· Prays 5x daily. This is the minimum RAM required.
· Honest. No hidden malware. No spyware. No fake profiles.
· Patient. Because we are starting with low bandwidth.
· Kind. Mercy in the source code.
· Wali included. No parental controls bypass.

Not Compatible With:

· Non-Muslim
· Non-praying
· Dishonesty
· Wali-less private chats
· Gold-digger mode
· Mockery of the poor

WHAT I OFFER

Sincerity OS — Not seeking a girlfriend. Seeking a wife. This is not a demo version.

Honesty Engine — I told you I have no money. No filters. No Photoshop. No fake background.

Effort Processor — I am not idle. I am applying, searching, striving. This machine is running.

Respect Protocol — I will honor you. I will protect you. I will not embarrass you.

Growth Algorithm — I will not stay at version 27.0 forever. Updates are coming.

Patience Cache — I will be patient with your bugs if you are patient with mine.

Free Trial: Not available. This is a lifetime subscription. Choose wisely.

TERMS AND CONDITIONS

· Wali access required from day one
· No private DM without mahram
· No physical contact before nikah
· Mahr will be paid, even if it takes time. I do not default on debts.
· Simple lifestyle. No luxury packages at launch.
· Both parties must strive for Allah's pleasure. No exceptions.

A MESSAGE TO THE POTENTIAL MATCH

Look. I am not going to pretend.

I do not have a car. I do not have a house. I do not have a savings account that makes you say MashaAllah.

What I have is:

· A prayer mat that knows my forehead
· A Qur'an that knows my voice
· A heart that knows my Lord
· A back that is ready to carry responsibility
· A future that Allah has already written

I am not the finished product. I am the prototype that is still being refined.

But here is the thing:

The Prophet ﷺ married Khadijah when he had nothing.

Musa worked for Shu'ayb for years before he could marry.

Yusuf was in prison when Allah was preparing his rise.

So do not count me out because my bank account is empty.

Count me in because my sajdah is full.

I do not ask for your beauty. I ask for your taqwa.

I do not ask for your wealth. I ask for your sabr.

I do not ask for perfection. I ask for sincerity.

CONTACT

If you are serious, and your wali is ready:

Contact: [INSERT WALI CONTACT HERE]

If you are not serious:

Please do not waste your data, your time, or my akhirah.

ERROR MESSAGES TO EXPECT

404 — Money Not Found — but InshaAllah Loading

Connection Slow — but Sabr Enabled

Low Storage — but Barakah Downloaded

System Overheated — but Dhikr Cooling

Update Required — Tawbah Installing

I’m not heartless. I’m just tired of giving a sincere heart to people who only wanted temporary feelings

Feeling so lonely 🙁