Single Parents

Has anyone done his rishta from this app or it is just a time pass. Like my eyes are wondering there is not a person stating that I have find my partener from this app.

Ladies, how many of you shoot your shot and like a man first? Do any of them like you back? I feel like I never get any likes back. Maybe my bio is a bit too upfront. Maybe I should like more often? Especially since my gold membership is running out in 11 days.

The love you give every day may go unnoticed by many, but it is shaping a life that will never forget your sacrifices.

You are doing the work of two hearts with one soul.

Keep going. One day, your child will understand just how deeply they were loved.

The Architecture of the Narcissistic Trap

The process of entrapment relies on a highly calculated sequence designed to disarm a target's instincts and secure psychological control.

By using performative warmth as a smokescreen, the narcissist creates an environment where the target willingly lowers their defences.

Stage One
The Assessment and MirroringBefore the trap is sprung, the individual observes the target to identify specific emotional needs, insecurities, or desires. They then mirror these traits perfectly, reflecting the target's values, goals, and interests.

This creates an immediate, intense sense of familiarity and deep connection, making the target believe they have found an ideal partner, friend, or ally.

Stage Two: The Manufacturing of ObligationLovebombing is deployed as the primary tool of entrapment through excessive praise, constant attention, and material gifts. This overwhelming generosity is not an act of genuine kindness, but a calculated strategy to create a psychological debt.

The target naturally feels a profound sense of gratitude and obligation, which binds them to the giver and blinds them to early warning signs.

Stage Three: Isolating the TargetAs the bond tightens, the narcissist subtly begins to erode the target's external support systems. This is often framed as a desire for exclusive intimacy or protection, using gentle manipulation to create distance between the target and their friends, family, or trusted colleagues.

By cutting off outside perspectives, the target becomes entirely dependent on the narcissist for validation and reality checking.

Stage Four: Securing the Public AlibiSimultaneously, the narcissist displays grand gestures of benevolence to the wider community. They establish a flawless public reputation as a helpful, charitable, and deeply empathetic person.

This public masking ensures that the target is trapped not just emotionally, but socially. If the target attempts to complain or expose the hidden harm later on, the community is likely to defend the abuser, leaving the victim entirely isolated and doubted.

The possibility of finding a partner on here is like the possibility of winning the lottery!

You should have to prove you gotta kid to get in here 😂

I am hoping to meet a few genuine female friends in the Lower Mainland (Vancouver area) who enjoy simple, low key adventures. I have shared custody with my ex, so I’m looking to make the most of the weekends when my kids are with their dad. I would love to find women who are up for brunch, coffee, or going on easy hikes and scenic walks every other weekend or so. If you’re in the Lower Mainland and looking to build meaningful friendships filled with good conversations, laughter, and fun outings, I would love to connect!

Why are single people present in ' single parents 'group i wonder🫡...

Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.

I got divorced over 12 years ago. I was married to a Sheikh with an OBE award from the King of this country. He's a psychologist and an author.

Yes, Allah ta'ala made me eat humble pie for four years whilst I was with him. I asked for khula many times.

What did Allah teach me? That even the devil worshipped Allah ta'ala for thousands of years till the rebellion.

I don't want to fall into slandering and backbiting. But that marriage gave me mental health issues. It's taken 12 years to finally break free and move on with my life.

I have learnt not to go for outwardly Muslim man. My ex did hajj 5 times. Yes, I had faults too but alhamdulillah, I was able to save 19 Sudanese individuals escape from Sudan to Egypt so there was purpose to that marriage. It was my own savings, alhamdulillah.

I dreamt that my ex was a jinn. He does sehr calling it khalwa. I've seen him do taweez as well with stars containing in them. He is the most stingiest man in existence. In 15 years he spent £160 on his daughter. She said "I don't want to call him dad." In court he denied that he fathered two children with me.

I was mentally ill and I didn't want my children going into social services but they did and he was cool as a cucumber throughout that process.

Be careful. You might end up marrying the devil or an angel. Don't forget your istikhara. It will save you from pain of many years, insha'Allah ta'ala.

It is the end of times. I no longer look for a pious man. I don't know what that looks like to be honest.