Muslims in Nigeria

If you are here on this app. I guess we all know why we are here. Please don’t reply to message at your own will keeping the other person hanging. Imagine sending message to you at 9:15 and you reply 9:40pm. How do you expect convo to move on. On all chat is always 20 to 30mins different before you reply 🤦🏾

Tell me, why are you on a dating app and still using AI-generated or heavily edited pictures on your profile? What exactly are you trying to achieve?

Eventually, you’ll meet your match physically, and they may realize that your appearance or physique doesn’t look anything like what they saw on your profile. Then, when things don’t work out, you start saying, “Men are this, men are that.”

Please, let’s stop doing this. Stop trying to present a version of yourself that doesn’t exist. Take natural pictures and be honest about who you are. You might be surprised—you’ll eventually meet someone who genuinely likes you for exactly who you are. ❤️

As a lady, if you don’t even have the bare minimum to sort out your transport fare when you want to see someone, it can honestly be a turn-off for me.

I’d rather come and see you myself than send you transport money to come see me. Not because I can’t afford it, but because I believe there should be some level of effort from both sides.

And honestly, if I send the money and you still don’t show up, I’d feel like I wasted my time and money. So why put myself through that when I can simply come see you myself?

Why is it so hard to find a serious person that’s truly interested in relationship is it that some people just opened this app to have fun

I saw the ad, downloaded the app, and now I’m here. Hi everyone. Looking forward to a safe space.

INDIRECT BILLING JUST 2DAYS TALKING STAGE LOL

I lost a lot of people because I gave my full trust.
But that didn't kill my faith in people.

I still believe there are real ones out there.
I'm looking for friendship with no conditions.
Friendship that stays in good times and bad times.

If your heart says "that's me", then my hands are open.
Suleiman is here.

Confession time. I was new on the app about a year ago when I matched with her. Things were going on smoothly. We began to develop this bond to the point where we were comfortable enough to share secrets and advice. We were so compatible but I wasn't ready to proceed with marriage immediately (my timeline was 2yrs. Now 1yr) while it was all she wanted. We weren't in the same city (she was from kaduna while I'm in kano) tho distance isn't actually a problem for me. I felt like it wouldn't be fair to hold someone for that long. Anything could happen. What if after the wait it didn't work out? What if what ifs.. We were consistent for about two months but we never moved off the app. The app alone was sufficient. I later deleted my profile completely after a long taught. I decided I had no business being here and raising mine and people's hope. That was how I lost someone that I'm yet to find her match up till now. And I actually regret it. Would she agree to wait two years? Would it be fair for her? What if I lose interest before then? What if she lose interest? I lost her to what ifs!

Salaam Alaikum! I am not new here but I have never use this field before. So how does this work ?

O Allah, bless what You have provided for us, increase us from Your bounty, and make our blessings a means of bringing us closer to You. Ameen. 🤲🏽

May Allah bless everyone reading this with halal wealth, good health, protection, peace of mind, and doors of rizq they never imagined would open. Ameen. 🖤☪️