Muslims in Toronto

It's so hard to find a dominent women here

I ll be honest.
There’s a sense of aloneness around me.
I am alone but not lonely.

I miss the depth of connection.
Yes, I have friends to hangout but my emotional need is not getting fulfilled.

I can nuke the emotional need by tomorrow morning by doing breathwork and feeling dope again. Tomorrow morning I will be a new person after doing breathwork tonight and I would feel invincible.

But, I am feeling alone tonight until I nuke my emotional need.

Salam everyone,
I have a very important question, I am an introvert but I get comfy once I am in the vibe.
Now, on this app, we chat and then plan a meeting. The issue is that, I have never met random men in my whole life, just talking to someone for a few weeks and meeting them seems kinda unsafe or even awkward to me, idk what to talk about, what to say?, and how to proceed.
I have a few questions

1. after how much time of chatting, should one call?
2. after how much time of interaction, should one meet?
3. Is it usually the guy that initiates the meeting?
4. I wanna know someone for at least 6 months before getting married, so when should parents be involved?
   Thank you

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PART 2

So she sits there and starts explaining herself. She’s like, “I don’t really dress like this at home.” I’m like…no kidding ey and then she starts telling me what she actually wants. She wants a boyfriend. She wants somebody she can travel with, go on little trips with, go out for dates, be lovey-dovey with, be affectionate, basically just enjoy life together and out here. She tells me she wants to live life. And I’m sitting there thinking…Then why the fxxx did your profile make you look like you’re about to interview me for a marriage proposal??? Because I’m not even saying there’s anything wrong with wanting that lifestyle. You wanna travel? Cool, you wanna dress up? Cool, you wanna wear makeup? Cool, you want a relationship and somebody to be lovey-dovey with? Bet, say less, do you fam, that’s your business. BUTT say that from the JUMP.. Don’t have me reading your profile thinking I’m meeting one person, then I drive an hour to Toronto and unlock the next GTA character. And the crazy thing is, she actually seemed like a nice girl. Low key ngl, the conversation was good. We were laughing, talking, getting to know each other. Which somehow made the situation even more confusing because now I’m thinking…Wait a minute… maybe I shouldn’t judge this based on the first five minutes. Then she starts telling me more about what she wants from a guy. She wants somebody who’ll actually spend time with her. Travel together, go out, be affectionate, basically be her best friend and her man at the same time. And I’m listening to all this thinking girl, u could’ve put THIS in the profile. Because I would’ve at least known what I was signing up for innit? Instead I came all the way from Oakville thinking I’m meeting Miss “I’m very serious, very modest, no games”…And I’m sitting across from Toronto’s version of “fxxx it, I just wanna enjoy my life.” 🤦‍♂️ 😔😩 and the funniest part she had “I DON’T PLAY GAMES” on her profile. Like BRUHHHH. Anyways….then she looks at me and asks “So… are you still interested now that you konda know a little more about me?” And now I’m sitting there with my fork in my hand thinking…okay, this is where I gotta make a decision because I could finish my breakfast, pay the bill, say thanks and dip or…I could actually give this girl a chance and see where it goes.

Part 3 next post