Muslims in India

Anyone from Hyderabad, India here? Let’s connect ☺️

Don't accept a marriage based
only on sweet promises. Look
at his ability to fulfil his
responsibilities.

Can he provide suitable
accommodation, maintenance
and other necessary expenses?

“Fantasies can’t satisfy your hunger.”

And the waiting goes on and on and on..

Extensive non-Muslims' akeeda is based on normalised thinking: believe easy -lie easy -forgive easy - live easy - and impulsive sentiment easy - live with Random people easy - surface level; they live on a situation basis -realisation so low

Real Islam follower core - has Takwa Akeeda so high - everything will be clear - and acceptance - fear of Allah - always pray for humility - easy and discard wrongdoing even if they did anything wrong but sudden apology and cry to forgiveness to Allah and fix the problem they created and again promise not to do that again, stay grounded and remain Death - and you will get what you did wrong or good in this life -
Realisation so high
i was a joint one circle because i was the part in the job there - there circle 12 people girl and boys, and beside me, so I saw they were almost friend zone one did breakup and circle people also New partner hahaha again the entire circle sandwich 😂 disgusting right or they sit together and picknic together and mix dish 🙄 No intigrity -No respect No honesty - No shame, how Neech people they are, they were gripping me to go outside with them but i denied - we knows as a muslim we cant with them - they offered Drink any of birtday of celibration, this is they are -
So tell me? How will you accept this?

I wanted to shout at them sometimes -Ye neechta mere sath nahi chalega - I don't tolerate it - you don't deserve my time - but acchey introvert Wala masla 😂 kese bardast kiya mera esa hai ek bakwas Ki get out koi bhi ho - thoda rakho ek do theek they I respect them but almost vahi
Aaj 99% cut-off h or I feel awesome drama bhi but mera Rehna jaruri tha unke sath unko lagta tha - I didn't share but reality they are like u know

Assalamualaikum dosto..
we are traveling to Bangalore today via train

Assalamualaikum guys 💖

Genuine question for the community:
Why has ghosting become the default after moving things off the app? You match, have a great first conversation, exchange numbers or Instagram, talk for a couple of days… and then silence.
A simple "Hey, I don't think we're a match, but I wish you the best" goes such a long way and saves both sides from overthinking. Clear communication shows emotional maturity and respect for someone else’s time.
Ladies, what usually leads to the sudden fade rather than just saying it directly? Would love to hear honest perspectives on this.

💔 Marriage Is Not a Game, and Women Are Not Options.

Honestly, the way some men approach women these days is disappointing. They come into your life talking sweetly, making promises, and pretending to be serious. But when it comes to commitment, responsibility, and marriage, they suddenly have excuses.

For some, dating has become nothing more than a way to pass time, seek attention, and fulfill their own desires. They get close to a girl, make her emotionally attached, and then walk away as if she never mattered. They want the benefits of a relationship without the responsibility of commitment.

The sad part is that some women genuinely enter these connections with marriage in mind, hoping to find a life partner, while the other person has no serious intentions from the beginning.

Marriage is not just about attraction, sweet words, or temporary feelings. It's about respect, loyalty, honesty, responsibility, and choosing someone even when things aren't always easy.

If you're not serious about marriage, be honest from the beginning. Don't play with someone's emotions just because you're unsure about what you want.

Not every woman is looking for casual dating, and not every conversation is an invitation to cross boundaries. Some of us still believe in meaningful connections, genuine intentions, and a relhip that leads to marriage.

I would rather remain single than waste my time on someone who doesn't know the meaning of commitment.

A woman is not a temporary chapter in your life. If you cannot offer her honesty, respect, and serious intentions, don't make promises you never planned to keep.

May Allah protect us from people who hide their true intentions behind sweet words and bless us with partners whose intentions are pure, whose character is beautiful, and whose commitment is genuine. Ameen. 🤲🏻