Muslims in Australia

I’m so exhausted from searching for a spouse
Once a Muslim man sees you searching for a spouse because of financial hardships they either run the other way or accuse you of being a gold digger or want to take full advantage of my vulnerabilities and become some night in armor(won’t call it shining cause it’s not) and oppress you by telling you to obey because you owe them your life for providing
Like what 😳
Everyone’s struggling these days in one way or the other
I’m perfectly happy struggling on my own
I want a partner not a tyrant who holds his support over my head the rest of my life