Muslims in Canada

The longer i remain single, the more sacrifices and forfeiting life goals i feel like I have to make

I believe the best relationships begin with genuine friendship, grow through honesty and understanding, and become stronger through mutual respect. ❤️

❤️Assalamualaikum❤️
🥰I'm looking here good wife 🌹

I came to Canada when I was 4 from Lahore, Pakistan. I grew up really skinny and small, so naturally I was overlooked in most situations in my life.

ADHD isnt always just a focus problem, sometimes its the fact that you can’t see the board in class because you need glasses, but you dont know that so you spend middle school thinking that’s how the board looks for everyone.

I did poorly every school year, I would be so sad trying to figure out why I can’t do well like other kids. Every year I used to say, this year I won’t be funny, but cool instead so the girl you have a crush on can take you seriously at least.

I got diagnosed with ADHD in grade 12 freshly being rejected from all my university applications. Taking medication felt like seeing clearly for the first time.

I stayed for Grade 13, and dropped a mid 90 average to get accepted into one of the top programs in the world. BBW/BCS WLU/UW

Unfortunately I had to understand how to manage and operate my life before I was ready for any post secondary education nvm a double degree lol

My dad paid for my fees, my off campus student housing. I did not have the heart to tell him I am failing school. He was a taxi driver and my mom didn’t work.

I never asked for money to keep things easy for my parents, I chose to struggle myself. My first year I got lucky with roommates that cared for me. Sometimes I would get McDonald’s for my roommate and he would get me food too. My roommate would feel bad, he didn’t know I needed it.

Second year, I lived further from campus. I didnt know what osap was, so I was just living everyday with $0 in my pocket. Buying broken iphones, fixing them and selling them to have money. Sometimes i would go weeks without a phone.

It got to the point where i didnt have food and my medication would reach the point where its inn-effective. Whatever way i managed to eat, i knew i had only a few hours to figure out what to do next before I couldn’t think straight again.

I would meditate every morning, participate in nofap, gym, basketball.

I managed to buy protein and peanut butter, basically that was my only food, and it caused me to become shredded with an 8 pack in the most athletic shape in my life.

At this point, i was strikingly handsome but my self confidence was so shot, even when people looked at me, I would feel ashamed. My friends called me man on a mission because i would always come anywhere and then leave immediately.

I went to the club with my old roommate and approached a beautiful girl for the first time in my life because something pulled me towards her. I told her she’s the most beautiful girl I’ve ever seen, she asked if i say that to every girl. I said no you’re the first one ever literally.

I took 2 days to text her cuz this was genuinely a paradigm shift for me. A girl gave me her number, and she was an actual 10/10

No matter what i said, it just worked. For the first time in my life i felt what it feels to be desired. I’ve never felt so incredible in my life, this girl made me feel like i am a person deserving of good things in life.

I would use the last $10 i have to see her fed and happy, even if it meant I would be hungry the next day.

She was perfect in every sense to me. Naturally being in university, she was exploring her options but it would deeply impact how I feel in my soul.

She ended up cutting me off because I was obviously unstable, asking for closure after just a week of talking 🤣

She would engage with other men on social media, i would lurk them, they had BMWs, etc and I was like just like I need to be better to attract her.

I could never be angry at someone for not liking me, it’s not their fault.

I would plan entire 4 month school terms in which i would fix my circumstances. Every time she gave me a chance i messed it up, this is how was learning how to navigate females.

She would say stuff like i wish you talked to me more but the stuff i was dealing with i couldn’t even express because I knew it would make me less than my competition in her eyes.

I ended up trying to win this girl for so many years, i genuinely achieved massive success just for her love, which i never fully received.

Limerance is tragic.

Nobody can escape reality.Money can not stop time.Beauty can not stop age.Power can not stop age.Life reminds us all that we are all humans.

It should be a crime to post an Ai generated pic of yourself on a marriage app.

Salaam everyone ☺️

Salaam! Looking to connect with girls in the Ottawa / Montreal area. Drop me a DM if you're local! ☕️✨

Halal = the ultimate filter? 😂
So I matched with a younger guy and asked him what made him choose me. He said he wanted to get to know me. Then I mentioned that I’m a practicing Muslimah and that I only want things to proceed in a halal way… and suddenly UNMATCHED! 😂
So guys, is mentioning “halal” actually the best way to filter out the wrong people here? Because apparently it works faster! 🤭

Salaam everyone 🙂