Muslims in Melbourne

At 48, I’ve come to learn a few things about love, life and the importance of knowing your worth. ❤️

One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned is that you can have so much love to give, the purest intentions and a heart that genuinely wants to see another person happy, but none of that guarantees you’ll receive the same in return.

I’ve learned that being understanding, patient and supportive are beautiful qualities, but sometimes we become so focused on understanding other people’s circumstances that we forget to acknowledge our own emotional needs.

I’ve learned that there’s a difference between someone having time for you and someone making time for you.

There’s a difference between being wanted and being valued.

And there’s certainly a difference between receiving affection and experiencing genuine emotional intimacy.

I’ve learned that communication isn’t simply exchanging messages. It’s showing curiosity about another person’s life, wanting to know their thoughts, understanding their feelings and genuinely enjoying their company.

I’ve also learned that physical closeness doesn’t always mean emotional closeness. Sometimes you can be physically close to someone and still feel a thousand miles away.

Perhaps one of my greatest lessons has been understanding that you should never have to convince someone to want to spend time with you.

Love shouldn’t feel like you’re constantly waiting for a moment of someone’s attention or wondering whether your presence makes a difference in their life.

I’ve learned that you can admire someone’s ambition, celebrate their achievements, encourage their dreams and genuinely want the very best for them, while still recognising that your own happiness and emotional needs matter just as much.

And I’ve learned something about myself along the way.

I’m a woman who loves wholeheartedly. I don’t need expensive gifts, fancy restaurants or extravagant gestures. I’m happiest with the simplest things — a meaningful conversation, a spontaneous coffee, a walk together, laughter, affection and quality time.

I don’t need to be the centre of someone’s universe, but I do believe that when someone genuinely values you, they naturally make room for you in their world.

At 48, I’m no longer confusing patience with accepting less than I need, or understanding with constantly making excuses for what is missing.

I still believe in love. In fact, I believe in it just as deeply as I always have.

But I’m beginning to understand that love isn’t only about how much you’re willing to give. It’s also about recognising when your heart needs to be nurtured in return.

And perhaps the most important lesson of all?

Never lose the beautiful parts of yourself simply because someone else doesn’t know how to appreciate them.

Stay loving. Stay kind. Stay genuine. But never forget that your feelings, your time and your happiness matter too.

Because life is far too short to spend it feeling lonely, unheard or emotionally unfulfilled.

May Allah grant us all a love that is sincere, a companionship that brings peace, and someone who never makes us question whether we matter. 🤲❤️

I can also make this more profound and thought-provoking, focusing on the lessons you’ve learned about the difference between a man who desires a woman and a man who genuinely wants to share his life with her.

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Im new here, can anyone Guide me a bit more about this app?
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Expressions of interest are now open!

Introducing the IEACA Matchmaking Programme for Muslims aged 30 and under who are ready to take a serious step towards marriage.

📅 Launching 9 November 2026
Learn more and register your interest
https://ieaca.org.au/matchmaking

With Imam Khalil’s guidance, the programme offers a structured process that respects your privacy, dignity and choice:

• Screened applications, anonymous profiles and compatibility checks.
• Questions exchanged privately through IEACA administrators.
• Introductions through the sister’s verified wali when both individuals wish to proceed.

For sisters who are reverts or do not have an eligible Muslim wali, Imam Khalil will assess individual circumstances and arrange appropriate Islamic oversight.

Identities remain confidential during the initial stages. Contact details are shared only when appropriate and with permission. Your choice to decline is respected throughout.

Swipe through to explore the process, and share with anyone you know!

Someone wrote on their profile that I like mature women but he liked a 12 years younger woman than him
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Salam, Giving late reply is a bad habit in girls?

Salamm, do you guys now where I can meet some people. I'm new in Melbourne and wanna make some friends