Muslims in Brisbane

Brisbane & Gold Coast: Can we talk about how broken our marriage initiatives are? We need a new approach.

Salaam everyone, This is specifically for people living in the Brisbane and Gold Coast areas.

I want to hear from both men and women locally on this. We all know the struggle of navigating marriage with the current generation's culture, changing mindsets, and conflicting expectations.

Some communities here try to gather groups together, but the results are usually very low.

Traditional forms yield little success, and big events often fail because the crowd is too mixed.

With all the online gender wars happening lately, it feels like people are bringing their past bad experiences into the mix and taking it out on potential matches they don't even know yet.

We need a complete shift in the dynamic. It works best when everyone tunes out the extreme "red pill" or radical feminist content and keeps a genuinely open mind.

Both sides need to be completely clear and honest about what they want right from the start, with zero judgment. See how they respond—and if your life goals don't align, just accept it and move on without the games or the BS.

Since our local community is smaller, instead of one-size-fits-all events, what if we tried a multi-layered approach right here in Brissy and the GC via trial and error?

For example:

Layer 1 (The Private Pilot): A completely confidential, offline matchmaking system run locally by 1–2 trusted intermediaries (no mixing, no group chats, pure privacy for the shy/religious).

Layer 2 (The Social Track): Low-pressure, activity-based networking for the more casual "in-between" crowd.

Layer 3 (The Spiritual Track): Setups strictly adhering to traditional guidelines.

I’m trying to gauge what people in our local area actually want before trying to build something.

If a community group tried to implement this framework here, which track would you realistically participate in?

Please drop your suburb/area, gender, and vote (A, B, or C) in the comments below (e.g., "Brisbane South, Male, A" or "Gold Coast, Female, B"):

[ A ] – The Private Pilot: I prefer total confidentiality with trusted intermediaries. No public events.

[ B ] – The Social Track: I prefer low-pressure, casual social events or activities to network.

[ C ] – Both/Mixed: I think communities should run all of them because everyone has different needs.

Let me know your thoughts or any other ideas you have on how we can create real action locally!

JazakAllah Khair.

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I’ll tell you beforehand: within a message or two, I had already realised that this man was an extremely disgusting person. But I continued chatting with him because I wanted to expose him. I felt disgusted even talking to him, but I wanted to expose someone like this.

Please be careful with this man. He introduces himself as an engineer from Sydney. He talks about becoming intimate before marriage and told me that he has girlfriends, donates sperm to fulfil his physical needs, goes to massage parlours, and also visits prostitutes. From what he has said and how he has behaved with me, I believe he is not looking for marriage but is mainly interested in fulfilling his physical needs.

I have the full chat, but I can’t share all of it here. If any woman or girl knows this man personally or has had any dealings with him, please message me privately. I’m willing to share the full chat with you so you can see the truth for yourself and avoid falling into his trap.

I also want to make it clear that I was talking to him specifically to expose him. Otherwise, this man could have deceived and taken advantage of other women as well.

Now this man is talking about religion as if he is a religious scholar. He is an extremely disgusting person, yet he presents himself as someone knowledgeable about Islam. The reality I have seen is that he talks about having physical relationships with women without Nikah.

Salaam, check out this post from Jahan on Jamaa.
https://jamaa.com/social/post/pos_3ISK640uEz1b2T09wJwwHIMg0Qr/?referrer=srf_35VauD1HXp0ECxBwJf9wk7ctHan&location=profile&t=1788592885&utm_source=muzz_app&utm_medium=jamaa&utm_campaign=pos_3ISK640uEz1b2T09wJwwHIMg0Qr

Hi everyone! I’m looking for a serious partner to marry and settle down with. I live in Brisbane and would love to find a kind gentleman here (Brisbane based).

Just to be open from the start, I can’t have biological children, but I’m looking for a real teammate to build a beautiful life with. I wouldn't call myself deeply religious right now, but it's really important to me to grow in my faith.

I’d love to find a husband who wants to pray together and learn side-by-side so we can get closer to Islam as a couple.

What I am looking for:

— A real man: Someone who steps up and takes on life's responsibilities confidently.

— True teamwork: Standing strong together through both the good and the hard times.

— Mutual support: I’ll always be your biggest cheerleader and support system & vice versa

— Shared growth: Learning, praying, and building our faith together at our own pace.

— Brisbane local: Living nearby so we can meet up once we know we are a match.

If you are a serious, responsible man who is ready for true commitment, please send me a private message with a little bit about yourself. I would like to chat on a phone call first to see if we connect.