Converts / Reverts

https://youtu.be/2kwO1L81Yxs?si=BG4dVNkIXpEZscVH

Breaking Bonds: The Quran’s Narrative on Cutting Family Ties

Muzz has become a place where you're not only getting to know a person, you're also dealing with the emotional leftovers of people who came before you.

A lot of conversations don't end because of incompatibility. They end because someone is still reacting to wounds they never healed.

One person lied. The next person gets interrogated.

One person ghosted. The next person gets distrusted.

One person manipulated. The next person gets treated like they're guilty before they've done anything.

And while women can contribute to this too, many women here are carrying genuine emotional damage caused by men who lacked honesty, consistency, accountability, and basic emotional maturity.

The result?

People are hyper-defensive. Everyone is waiting for the red flag. Everyone assumes the worst. Everyone is trying to protect themselves instead of trying to understand each other.

Emotional intelligence isn't just knowing how to communicate your feelings, It's recognizing when your reactions belong to your past more than your present, It's understanding that not every person deserves to pay for what someone else did, It's being able to have difficult conversations without turning them into accusations, tests, or power struggles.

Some people are so busy looking for a spouse that they never stop to ask whether they're emotionally available for one.

A healthy connection cannot grow where fear, suspicion, and projection are doing all the talking.

The dating struggle on Muzz isn't just finding the right person, It's finding people who have done enough inner work to recognize the difference between a genuine threat and a genuine connection.

Note: This post will probably trigger some people. If you feel personally attacked by the idea of accountability, emotional intelligence, or healing your unresolved baggage, that reaction might be worth exploring.

https://youtu.be/Dbby-78Re_g?si=ohddzCWQMs6zjJ1B

Pray Even If You Do not feel like it
Bayyinnah institute
Nouman Ali Khan

https://youtu.be/btQ_WoUT5IE?si=4rvoulbizynB8oVU

It Will Save You From Yourself
The Power of Prayer on the Mind, Body & Soul
Surah Al Ma’arij, Bayyinnah institute
Nouman Ali Khan

https://youtu.be/kjpwWKOS9qs?si=slKSgeZ52LpLXoal

Stop Living IN Guilt: Will Allah Forgive Me?
Bayyinnah institute
Nouman Ali Khan

Surah Ar Rum: “Among his signs is that he created for you spouses so that you may find comfort and tranquility in them and between the two of you he has placed affection and compassion indeed, in this are signs for those of you who think”

Men are caretakers, protecters and providers for women, because men have been instructed to maintain and support their women through spending on them from their finances as this is the right that a woman has is that her husband maintains and provides her with whatever financial support she is in need of through providing for her from his finances
Surah Nisa 4:34

“O young people those of you who has the financial capability to take care of a woman and a wife should marry, this is better for you as marriage encourages you to safeguard and protect yourself along with marriage being a form of stability, it is a way for men and women to safeguard themselves through lowering the gaze and maintaining a level modesty

https://youtu.be/QDbYxf2xs-k?si=EflBb6wU8gsh9fo4

When Tradition Replaces Religion
Bayyinnah institute
Nouman Ali Khan

https://youtu.be/qpO_WAtTQyA?si=HOBnN1Pp58QGpSc-

The Idols of Our Time: Prophet Ibrahim’s Legacy, Eid Al Adha Khutbah
Nouman Ali Khan: Bayyinah institute

My experience on this app hasn't been good at all so far. As you can see from this profile, the person says they're here for something serious. So you send a message expecting them to at least reply with a "no" if they're not interested or don't like your profile. But instead, what I get is being blocked or rejected without even having a conversation.