Muslims in the UK

Before becoming a Muslim I was super confident with women. Since I reverted I have became way more shy. I’m not sure if it’s my fear of being judged as a revert or just the fact Muslim women that I have spoken too are generally more independent and confident but it’s definitely made me a bumbling mess.

I’m hoping as I talk with more Muslims and try to integrate myself more into the communities my confidence grows.

Any girl from UK

Hello, any single lady here 🥰🥰🥰 we cn do some chemistry, feel free to dm me your watsapp number

Hello, any single lady here 🥰🥰🥰 we cn do some chemistry

Is it weird having anxiety at 21 especially in the night

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May Allah accept our prayers, guide our hearts, and grant us the chance to visit His House one day. Ameen.

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Salaam Everyone,

I’m in my late twenties and I’ve just started to take part in the dating / talking stage to find a husband.

Marriage has never been on my mind until recently. In my teenage years and early twenties I’ve been dealing with mental health issues and haven’t had the time or energy to entertain men. Also, school and work kept my mind occupied for so long.

One of my main preferences is a man who hasn’t been in any relationships or dated multiple women for a long period of time. I want a man who’s inexperienced just like me. However, a lot of Muslim men have been taking part in haram relationships as they get older and I’m scared I’ll end up with a man who has baggage and isn’t a virgin. I’ve noticed the men I find attractive are the main ones who partake in these relationships, and I’m getting worried that I’ll have to settle for a man I’m not attracted to, just so I don’t end up with one who’s been with multiple women.

How would I know? I feel like it’s easy to tell based on how they interact with women. Also, many of them love to boast about having ex’s or experiences with women and that’s great for me since I’m able to filter them out.

Anyway, am I weird for having this preference at my age?

Honestly the person i really want to marry is non Muslim. May Allah guide them to Islam. I pray almost every prayer that he guides them to Islam. Even if they aren’t meant for me in this life, i hope they can still become Muslim and go to jannah. I’ll want to be with them there. That’s how much i respect them and care about them. It’s not selfish, they are genuinely a good person and it’s just ashame if they follow the wrong path. Allah chooses whom he wants to guide. May Allah accept my dua. Maybe all my role is in their life is to pray for them and Allah can choose to guide them because he sees my sincerity.

Anyway.
May Allah guide the person whose initials are AP. Say Ameen. It’s the most blessed ten days of the year. May Allah grant us all good spouses and abundant prosperity and peace. Make dua guys and lots of dhikr 📿.

🤔 Would you ask your hubby or wife to delete social media?

Honestly, I’d delete it… but I can’t. 🫢 I post videos because I love putting smiles on people’s faces. I also share fighting videos to show everyone: if Jay can do it, I can do it too — it’s all about motivation and proving that anything is possible! 💪✨

Some say yes — delete it to avoid drama and stay focused on each other. Others say no — it’s about trust and what you use it for.

For me? As long as I’m spreading joy and inspiring others, it’s worth it. ❤️

What would you do? Would you want your partner to delete it, or is it okay as long as their reasons are good? Let me know 👇

Getting married with disability

If you are single and getting married, this is what is on my mind.

People always tell me it’s better to marry back home, but I think that might not always be true. To be honest, I really used to want that, and let me be clear — I would marry someone from back home if she is good and has a beautiful nature. That is what matters most to me. But I would also love to marry someone right here in the UK too, if she is the right person.

Honestly, here in the UK, girls have said straight to me: “I rejected you.” That hurt, because they only look at my difficulties and not who I am inside. But I want to make this very clear — I am not desperate, and I am not begging for anything. That is not who I am at all.

I have speech and learning difficulties, and for a long time I felt embarrassed. But Alhamdulillah, this is part of who I am — it doesn’t stop me from being strong, kind, loyal, or able to provide and love properly. And important to know: I can have healthy babies, in shā Allāh. My disability does not affect that at all. I’m Bengali, from East London, I train hard every day — Judo, BJJ, boxing, weightlifting, Pilates. I work hard and want to achieve great things, and build a happy family one day, in shā Allāh.

Whether here or back home, I simply want someone patient, understanding, and happy — someone who sees my heart and character first, not just my differences. Marrying back home sounds lovely if she is good and kind; marrying here could be beautiful too, if people judged less and looked deeper. I know exactly what I am worth, and I know what I bring to a relationship and a family. I am just looking for the right person, that is all.

Does anyone else feel the same — open to both, but standing firm that you deserve to be seen for who you truly are and everything you can offer? Would love to hear your thoughts. 🤲💪