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You're expired, you're like milk, you're like a car losing its value. Blah blah blah

We see that grown men typing paragraphs about how women lose their worth with age

But why??

Like why do they post such insane opinions

It's because when you're an average man (looks career etc)

You are invisible in society

You see a girl give her a welcoming smile and she looks away icked out

You message a girl with a nice compliment she responds with ew or leaves you on seen

You peruse a girl and you don't just get rejected you get humiliated

You never ever receive any attention

You will have a crush on a co worker just for her to run around and friend zone you. While talking about her bf who cheats on her but she's still with him.

So what happens then ^

They get bitter instead of better.

Instead of controlling the controllables (grooming, physique, careers, fashion etc) basically becoming more desirable

They post nonsense. It's their get back.

“You rejected me; now look at your old
Hahaha! “

From chasing me on TikTok and saying all the right things… to messaging me on a second number just to insult me. That's the speed it takes for some men to switch when you don't give them exactly what they want.

I was open enough to share my health struggles with him; things I don't tell just anyone. And instead of being gentle and understanding, he questioned it, lectured me, made me feel like my tiredness was some kind of excuse, and guilt-tripped me when I didn't reply fast enough.

If he'd just been kind, patient, and calm? I would've happily had that call with him. I would've kept opening up. But he chose pressure instead of peace.

And now I'm the one sitting here feeling awful for simply having boundaries and a health condition I can't control. He came back on another number knowing exactly what he was doing; just to get one last dig in and make me feel small.

Why chase someone just to make them feel bad? If your ego can't handle a woman being human; that's not on her. That's on you. And I'd rather be single and at peace than constantly apologising for existing.

I don’t need you to be like my sister that tried to beat me up to death the other day.

I got too much love to give. And already got too many people who i’ll always be connected to that have no love.

Assalamu alaikum everyone. I’d genuinely like your perspective on something. I was approached by a married brother looking for a second wife from the UK. Alhamdulillah his wife seems lovely and supportive and I have no issue with polygyny. I was initially open to getting to know them but life got overwhelming and I explained that I wasn’t in the right headspace and had put my search on hold. I even encouraged themto explore other options rather than wait on me. However the brother keeps coming back with more reassurance about financial security and what he can provide, despite me explaining where I stand. Alhamdulillah I can provide for myself and my children so while I appreciate the offer the repeated emphasis on money is starting to feel more like persuasion than a genuine connection. There’s also a lot of discussion about intimacy and his relationship with his first wife which adds to my discomfort. At what point does a generous marriage proposal become pressure? Am I overthinking this or can someone have sincere intentions while approaching things in a way that feels transactional? I’d genuinely like to hear both brothers’ and sisters’ perspectives.

I absolutely despise what this generation call love . Everything is transactional... everyone is chasing the bag....it's not about love anymore or having a nice family or making memories . Everything has to be posted for views and validation! Give me that grown folks love . Men use to be gentlemen and women were feminine! That's it ,that's my rant 😒

Add me or follow me let’s chat as friends as I don’t know where this is going tbh…. Women only no men’s thank you.

😤 sick of being single now….

Salaam alaykum and good morning everyone, I hope you are all well.

I am in need of Dua and (best) advice hence this post. My teenage child now wants to reach out to his father who walked out on us 10 days after our child was born. Cut a long story short, he’s always been the absent father and never bought my child a nappy, let alone anything else.

Growing up, my child has always been taught to forgive the dad because we all make mistakes and to pray for him. I used to tell him that there will come a day when he would want to speak with his father and when he is ready, he should approach with caution.

It seems that the day is lurking around as the child now wants to speak to the father. Part of me is happy that he is doing so because maybe he will know and get some closure for himself but part of me worries about any lies that might be fed to him by the runaway father.

I’m grateful for any duas and advice please. Jazaak Allah and thank you 🙏