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Let’s rid ableism from our community. 🤍
I’d love to hear honest perspectives from people who don’t have a disability — please feel free to share openly and respectfully.
Afterwards, I will share clear facts to correct misunderstandings and help everyone understand better.
Questions:
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What is the first thing that comes to mind when you hear the word “disability”?
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Would having a disability stop you from getting to know someone, or considering them for marriage or a relationship — and why?
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Do you worry about things like it being passed down to children, or is that something you would want to learn properly about first?
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What do you imagine life with a disability is like — and what do you think might be different from reality?
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Do you feel confident knowing how to act or speak around a disabled person, or do you worry about saying or doing the wrong thing?
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Would you prefer someone tells you about their disability early on, or would you rather get to know their personality first?
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What qualities matter most to you in a person — and where does disability fit into that, if at all?
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Have you ever caught yourself making an assumption about someone because of a disability? What made you realise it was wrong?
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Do you think society sees disabled people as equals, or is there still a lot of progress to be made?
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If you could ask one question to a disabled person to understand them better, what would it be?
Narcissistic Family Systems and Shayṭān’s Methods
Control and Self-Importance
A narcissistic family system often revolves around control, pride, manipulation, blame-shifting, and protecting appearances rather than pursuing truth and justice. These patterns resemble many of the qualities that Islam associates with Shayṭān.
Arrogance and Superiority
Shayṭān’s first sin was arrogance:
“I am better than him.” (Quran 7:12)
Likewise, narcissistic systems are often built on superiority, entitlement, and the belief that one person’s needs matter more than everyone else’s.
Division and Conflict
The Quran teaches that Shayṭān seeks to create division and hostility between people (Quran 5:91). In unhealthy family systems, this can appear through favoritism, scapegoating, gossip, and turning family members against one another.
Deception and False Appearances
Another similarity is the replacement of truth with image management. Just as Shayṭān deceives and promotes delusion (Quran 4:120), narcissistic systems often prioritize protecting reputations over acknowledging reality.
The Islamic Alternative
Islam calls believers toward the opposite path: humility instead of pride, truth instead of deception, accountability instead of blame-shifting, and mercy instead of control. These qualities protect individuals and families from destructive patterns that reflect Shayṭān’s influence.
What Allah Says About Envy, Jealousy, and Harmful Plots
About Envy (Hasad)
Allah teaches believers to seek protection from the harm of envy:
“And from the evil of the envier when he envies.”
— Qur’an 113:5
About Plotting and Scheming
Allah says:
“They planned, and Allah planned. And Allah is the best of planners.”
— Qur’an 3:54
And:
“The evil plot does not encompass except its own people.”
— Qur’an 35:43
About Those Who Wish Harm to Others
Allah says:
“Many of the People of the Scripture wish they could turn you back to disbelief after you have believed, out of envy from themselves after the truth has become clear to them.”
— Qur’an 2:109
About Trusting Allah
Allah says:
“And whoever puts his trust in Allah, then He is sufficient for him.”
— Qur’an 65:3
And:
“Indeed, Allah defends those who believe.”
— Qur’an 22:38
A Prayer for Protection
Many Muslims recite Surah Al-Falaq and Surah An-Nas morning and evening, seeking Allah’s protection from envy, malice, harmful intentions, and evil plots.
These verses remind believers that while people may envy, scheme, or wish harm upon others, Allah is fully aware of what is hidden and His justice encompasses all things.