Muslims in the UK

I think one of the weirdest things about Muslim communities is how much stuff gets normalised just because nobody talks about it.

Like “don’t question it, that’s just how things are.”

But… since when did silence make something Islamic?

Sometimes I genuinely think we need to unlearn certain things we’ve been taught and actually go back to the religion itself.

So many good looking men on here

Scroll down to job

Unemployed
Home maker
Universal credit

Sigh I genuinely don't have the energy to financially build up a man again.

Hijabi queens with sebboric dermatitis how are we managing a flakey dry scalp and dry hair while covering regularly?

What’s an underrated green flag in someone?

Not the obvious answers like “kind” or “loyal”.

I’m curious about the little things people notice that actually make them think, “Yeah, I like this person.”

Hello

Salaam,

Considering a potential wife from back home (PK).

Is there any red flags to look out for? How can i tell if this is genuine?

Need some advice, before if a girl would respond late by 14 hours I would do the same.

Now that I have been searching for over 3 years. I just respond when I see the message.

Need advice please

And how long is too late if someone doesn't respond within 48 hours should I message to ask if they are interested or just block and move on.

Sincere and open minded big brotherly advice to all my young brothers out here looking for marriage inshallah.

Never be desperate.
Never exaggerate your ability.
Never settle for the bare minimum.
Never lower your standards.
Never play the feminine role.
Never sell yourself short.

Always be a leader.
Always set the boundaries.
Always have a wise and sound plan.
Always keep your cool.
Always project manners.
Always apologise first

Inshallah may Allah make your path easy for finding the soul that was made for you 🤲🏻

Ladies I currently have over 700 DMs from UK brothers. I haven’t read these and it makes me think, 🤔 if there are so many in my DMs these same guys must be in all the other girls DMs on here.

How are we ever supposed to trust any guy and believe him when he says he’s serious about you only?!? Like surely these men are just out here speaking to multiple girls online. And this is only ONE platform. Imagine how many on snap,insta, other dating apps etc 😩😩😭😭

What a depressing thought!!!